tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39486773405007424742024-03-12T21:06:28.967-05:00Eric and Emily's AdventuresEmilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.comBlogger410125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-85032961612541002092014-08-19T08:56:00.001-05:002014-08-19T08:56:09.955-05:00Update with our Birthing PlansAfter a whirlwind last week, we're getting some plans in place and feeling a little more settled with our "game plan". <br />
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With the 34-week confirmation that my placenta was still covering my cervix, we decided to work with an OB at our local hospital to plan a cesarean birth in the event that the placenta doesn't move in the finals weeks of pregnancy. We had an appointment planned last Monday (35 weeks) with the midwife at the local women's health center. (Even while planning a home birth, we do some prenatal care with her because 1. if a hospital birth becomes necessary, we have records and a contact there, 2. she is 7 minutes from us, as opposed to an hour drive to see my home birth midwife, so it's more convenient when we're just going for routine appointments, and 3. I really like her a lot!) We talked to her extensively about our desires and concerns and who we wanted to put together for our "dream team" (I had an OB, anesthesiologist, and pediatrician all picked out in my mind.) She wanted us to see the OB right away to start making plans and present our requests for the not-so-common-here technique of a <a href="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1471-0528.2008.01777.x/full">"natural cesarean</a>". The OB happened to have an appointment open that afternoon, so we made plans to come back and talk to her. I felt good and like things were falling into place.<br />
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About 32 seconds into our appointment, the OB told us that her biggest concern with our birth plans was the pediatrician. So before our appointment, she had caught him and talked about our case. He informed her that since our baby has a known heart-defect, they didn't want the liability of caring for and releasing him from the hospital. And that if we did give birth here in Burlington, they would call in the neonatal response unit from the University of Iowa hospital to pick him up and airlift him to Iowa City. And that's when I wanted to throw myself on the floor and have a tantrum. I had this all figured out! After several tough days of digesting placenta previa and Tetralogy of Fallot diagnoses, I had found peace with my plan! The more rational part of me though, along with some extremely practical HypnoBirthing techniques to calm myself, smiled, thanked her for her time, and told her that if they were going to toss my baby onto a helicopter shortly after birth and take him to Iowa City, then I would just go up there to birth my child. <br />
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So Monday night I was a bit of a mess. I felt overwhelmed and unprepared to navigate such a large hospital where I don't have relationships with care providers. A place where, unlike here in town, I don't know the OB nurses, a fabulous anesthesiologist, and an OB and pediatricians that I know respect my choices, even when we disagree. I had a good cry, did a whole lot of praying, and resolved to put on my big girl pants and move forward. <br />
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I spent the next couple days getting records transferred and trying to get an appointment with an OB at the University Hospital. I wanted to get in within the week, and I wanted to see a female. And that left me all of one option among the dozens of doctors up there. And if I ever needed proof that God has this thing, our appointment Thursday afternoon provided that for us. <br />
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I wasn't sure how I would be received by the random OB with whom I had been given a time slot. I was walking in the door with a journal article about the technique I wanted used to birth my baby and a long list of questions/opinions about procedures before and after the birth. Not everyone has an appreciation for assertive patients. :) She walked in, introduced herself, told me she had read through my records and was familiar with my situation, and then said, "So here's the punchline: I went ahead and got you scheduled for a c-section on Monday." And then I proceeded to talk. A lot. About my understanding of the preference to deliver at 36 weeks with placenta previa. About my rejection of evicting my child with a known heart defect from the womb over a month early. About my previous birth experiences and my preferences for this time around. About my desire to give this little guy the best possible birth experience and strongest start that I possibly can. And I was calm, and I held it all together, and I was polite and rational. Eric was a great support and helped me to remember the things he and I had talked about needing to discuss with her.<br />
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And then really awesome discussion followed. And at some point in there, the doctor was visibly fighting back tears. She got it. She understood me, my disappointment, and the challenge of trying to do the best thing for my baby. And while she presented the medical view, she very strongly respected the research I had done and my opinions. She reiterated several times that this was my baby and my birth and, while she is there to present the best evidence and medical opinion she has, it ultimately it is my choice and they will do whatever they can to accommodate my requests.<br />
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She ended up giving us well over an hour of her time. She was in and out several times to consult with other people and make phone calls. At the end of the appointment, we walked away with these agreements:<br />
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-We have scheduled the cesarean birth for September 2 (38 weeks 1 day) with the hope and prayer that placenta moves and I can cancel it. :) <br />
<br />-We will meet weekly and keep watching my placenta for movement (ultrasound) and confirm baby remains happy and strong (non-stress test.)<br />
<br />-She is arranging for me to meet with someone from neonatology to discuss my expectations of a healthy baby at birth and my intention to keep him with me and out of the NICU, regardless of the fact that he has a congenital heart defect diagnosis that will require checking out in the days after his birth.<br />
<br />-She is going to have the scheduled operating OB stop by at our next appointment so we can present my preferences for the birth.<br />
<br />-My appointment is Thursday this week.<br />
<br />-Meanwhile, if I begin to experience any bleeding or signs of labor, I am to go to my local hospital right away to be checked out and then head up to Iowa City if there is time.<br />
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I got started on writing my official birth preferences to have everything on paper and make communication easier for everyone involved. And after all that, <b><i>I am at peace</i></b>. It's a peace that I know only God can give. I trust that however everything shakes out, it will be right for me, this little boy, and our family. I am so appreciative for all of the prayers, and I hope you will keep them coming.<br />
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Besides praying that, if it would be His will, the placenta would move, for healing of our little man's heart, and for general peace and health, I would ask that you also remember the girls. I had already talked to Gabriela and Lilian about how everything will be fine, but baby brother has a hole in his heart and he's going to born at the hospital now instead of at home so that the doctors can help fix it. They expressed some disappointment that they wouldn't get to witness it like they did Makayla's birth, but otherwise they haven't said too much. (Although Gabriela did tell me that she heard me say that baby boy is going to go on a helicopter ride to Iowa City and she wanted to know 1. why, and 2. if she could go too!) All of the out of town appointments and birth is going to mean we are away from the girls more than we intended and that, along with Gabriela just starting school and welcoming a new sibling, is kind of a lot all at once. Gabi has mentioned our little guy's heart and the hospital in all of her prayers the last week, so even though she isn't talking about it a lot, I know it's on her mind. <br />
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We are so thankful for a God who cares and for family and friends who pray for us and support us both emotionally and with the physical needs of our family. I appreciate all the notes, texts, calls, emails, and messages letting me know that we are in your thoughts and prayers and, even though I have not acknowledged each of them individually, please know that it means so much to me and has brought me so much comfort.<br />
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-77847901224622215312014-08-13T14:42:00.001-05:002014-08-13T14:59:03.580-05:00A Prayer Request for Our Little Guy's Heart and Birth<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This picture captures the moment that most stands out in my mind when I
think about Makayla’s birth. It was so
awesome. She was born gently in a
birthing tub, in our home, with Eric and the big girls there with me (along
with my midwife, assistant, doula, and two dear friends helping to look after the girls and take photographs.)
I have never felt so surrounded by love and have never experienced so
much love for all the people around me, as I did in that moment. Being in labor and giving birth is, by far,
my favorite thing to do. I often tell
people, in complete honesty, that if I could wake up and birth every single day,
I would. Really, seriously, I would. I have no idea what I’d do with all those
babies…but I love bringing new life from my body just that much.<br />
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While all three births have been great experiences and completely
unmedicated and intervention-free, Makayla’s was definitely my favorite birth. Being at home where I could curl up in my own
bed with my baby and no one coming in every time I doze off to take my vitals
or ask to mess with my baby was fabulous!
And I have SO been looking forward to that calm, safe beginning again for
my baby, myself, and my family. (Both
Gabriela and Lilian have such good thoughts and memories from the day Makayla
was born! And I think Eric liked leaving all the running around and getting somewhere to everyone else this time.)<br />
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When I had some bleeding at 19 weeks with this pregnancy and
we discovered, through ultrasound, that my placenta was positioned over the
cervix, I wasn't overly concerned.
Somewhere around 15% of pregnancies have some degree of placenta previa
at 20 weeks. That drops to less than 1%
by full term. The placenta pretty much
always migrates up as the uterus expands.
I've taken several steps as prescribed by my Traditional Chinese
Medicine Practitioner (Western medicine says there is nothing to be done but
wait and see) to help ensure it moves (herbs, acupuncture, diet changes,
plenty of rest, and yoga), and I've been sure it would do just that.<br />
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So at 34 weeks when we went back in to check on the position
of the placenta, I was both shocked and disappointed that it was still just
barely covering the entire cervix. You
can’t too very well have the placenta (baby’s life-line) come out before baby. And so the safest way for baby to be born with
a complete previa is via Cesarean birth before you go into labor on your own. The placenta still could move, and we would
certainly look at it again before anyone starts slicing me open, but the likelihood
of that happening is declining.<br />
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The other piece of news we received last Thursday, at that
34 week appointment, was that our little guy has Tetrology of Fallot. It is a congenital heart defect consisting of
1. ventricular septal defect (for him, a large hole in his heart between the ventricles),
2. overriding aorta (the main artery in a less than optimal position), and 3. pulmonary
stenosis (in his case, this seems to be very a very mild narrowing of the right
ventricle outflow tract.) It will
basically cause some blood to bypass the lungs and mix with the oxygenated
blood being transported through his body, reducing his oxygen levels. While this doesn't generally pose a risk to
newborns, which have relatively low oxygen needs, as he grows and becomes more
active, it is a serious problem. The
expectation is that he will require open heart surgery around 4-6 months to
correct the malformations and afterwards he would be expected to lead a normal
life with little-no restrictions.<br />
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That second piece of news complicates the first though. OBs recommend a c-section at 36 weeks with
complete placenta previa to minimize the risk of the cervix opening underneath the
placenta and causing a major hemorrhage.
(Side note: Given that none of our babies have come before 40 weeks, we
aren't comfortable with and would not consent to extracting this kid 1+ month
early, regardless of the recommendation.)
Meanwhile, under normal pregnancy conditions, the pediatric cardiologist
would prefer a spontaneous vaginal birth so that baby gets the strongest,
largest start and doesn't have the breathing difficulties that so much more
often accompany a non-labor Cesearean and/or pre-term babies. Ultimately, since we’re the ones with the
most at stake here, Eric and I have to look at all the evidence and decide
where our comfort level is and at what point we feel the risks/benefits are
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The big picture: the prognosis of placenta previa and
Tetralogy of Fallot are both good in this day and age. While both would have most likely lead to
death of baby (the heart condition not right away, but eventually) and quite possibly
mother 200 years ago, current medical technology has lessened the risks
considerably. </div>
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But the thought of my baby coming to me through major abdominal surgery (not to
mention recovering from said surgery with four children 5 and under) is hard to
wrap my mind around. And then throw in
open heart surgery with a 7-14 day hospital stay for my infant son and it all
seems a little overwhelming. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The reality check: I know other people suffer with much
more. I have friends dealing with
infertility who would LOVE to be told, “you will have a baby, but he will need
to be born via c-section.” I have
friends and family who have received terminal diagnoses and lost babies and others
with children who will have life-long challenges and limitations, and “we’ll do
a surgery at 4-6 months and after that all should be fine” would be the best
news of their life. And I do feel
selfish and ungrateful at times to sit with the feelings that I have
surrounding my situation. But I also
accept my emotions while praying for strength and serenity in all things.<br />
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I am incredibly thankful for the life I have, for the
children God has entrusted in my care, for easy and uneventful previous
births, and for this sweet little boy who will soon join our crazy family on
the outside world. We will handle
whatever comes our way. But I would be
ecstatic if this placenta would slide a few inches up and over to open the path
for baby. And if God would see fit to
stitch up our little one’s heart on His own, I can think of no greater miracle
in my life. I know He is in
control. He will give me, Eric, and the
girls the strength to do what needs to be done.
And I know He answers prayers. So
if you would like to join me and my family in praying for this little guy and
his birth, we would be most appreciative.<br />
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We have an appointment tomorrow afternoon with an obstetrician to start talking about the birth plans. I'll update soon with more information.<br />
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-62971353630732506662012-04-27T04:11:00.002-05:002012-04-27T04:11:44.474-05:00Ooh la la! IndeedThe thought of international travel alone with two children under the age of three causes me some anxiety. But there is apparently something magical about airports and planes with Gabriela and Lililan. They seriously morph into little angels with no desire other than to behave and do as I ask.<br />
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And this is why I am pleased to announce that we will be selling our home and moving into an airplane.</div>
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Just kidding. I think.<br />
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The trip over was quite smooth, except for the last 30 minutes or so.</div>
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It was our first time ever flying out of Peoria, and I love that airport now. Cedar Rapids and Moline are fine, but the free parking (right up close!) may have won my heart. Combine that with security personnel who did not open every little pouch of Plum Organics Baby Food (best snacks EVER as far as my kids are concerned...sucking pureed fruits and veggies from a pouch = great happiness) to test them for explosives, and I may never fly from anywhere else again! Not that I'm against airports preventing people from boarding with explosives, but I do take issue with opening sealed food pouches which then must be eaten OR REFRIGERATED. (Which is what has happened on previous flights!)<br />
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The girls were amazing on both the flight to Dallas and then to Paris. They each had a snack on our first flight and then took their afternoon naps. Once in Dallas, we made a mad dash for the children's play area for an hour before making our way to our gate. <br />
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Gabs has been especially pumped about this trip. She is finally old enough to be able to look forward to future events and she completely understood the whole concept of flying this time. Sitting on the plane, she kept telling me she wanted to "voa no ceu!" (fly in the sky). Earlier in the week, when I was telling her about all the fun things we were going to do on this trip, she nodded and agreed it would be a good time. And then she excitedly added, "E Bobbi vai ao vaso na aviao!" (And Bobbi is going to use the toilet on a plane!") So we made sure we did plenty of that too. I think I lost count after a dozen potty trips in the air. As a side note, Mamae does not share her enthusiasm for airplane lavatories.<br />
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Our flight to Paris was not without some excitement, lucky none that involved my offspring. An older gentleman starting having heart-attack symptoms a few hours into the flight. When the flight crew asked for any doctor on board to come to the back of the plane, I glanced at the map and noticed we were on the edge of the North America continent, about to begin the journey over the Atlantic. I knew at that point we would probably be landing soon. Who decides to fly over the ocean for several hours with a possibly seriously ill passenger and no place to land?!?<br />
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The plane made a U-turn and after a while, we landed in Stephenville, Newfoundland, Canada where we were met by an ambulance and the gentleman was taken off the plane. He seemed to be doing alright, and I overheard the doctor say he suspected his problems were actually related to dehydration. I made a little tent over the girls with blankets, so the lights coming on wouldn't awake them. Everyone who passed by during our 2+ hour stop got a kick out of them snoozing away through the whole ordeal - which all went down just a few rows behind us. <br />
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Turns out, it's a little tricky landing a commercial airliner at a random airport. We were going to land at an American Airlines-affiliated location, but they had freezing rain and ice. So we re-routed elsewhere. After the detour and an impending second take-off, we were going to need more fuel to make it to Paris. After a fuel tanker finally arrived sometime about 2 am local time at an airport which was not open at the time, the captain had to figure out a way to pay the guy. It was apparently a complicated situation involving AA corporate and someone reading off credit card numbers to the captain to relay to people on the ground. All in all, we were 4 hours late arriving in Paris. Which actually was great for my little people, since they got a solid 8 hours of sleep between supper and breakfast. I, on the other hand, did not. But as any mother will tell you, it is much better for mama to miss sleep than babies to lack sleep!<br />
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I knew all along that the trickiest part of the trip would be from baggage claim to the hotel in Paris. Eric would be tied up at his conference, so I would have to drag my sleep-deprived self, two children, two backpacks, two rolling carry-ons, two carseats, a stroller, and 1 large checked bag all the way through the airport to our hotel - which was located within a different terminal from where we were arriving. Luckily, I had a plan: LUGGAGE CART! And was happily greeted by may happy rows of carts at the baggage claim. It was still a little awkward, since I had to push the very over loaded cart, with Lilian attached to my body, manage Gabriela, and still drag an item or two behind me...but the seas of people parted and we managed just fine.<br />
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Unfortunately, our trip to the other terminal required getting on the train, there was no walkway. And luggage carts are not allowed. UGH! <br />
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There was neither time nor space to be photographing my solution, so I will try to describe it as best I can:<br />
I put Lilian in her carseat and had it strapped to one of the rolling carry-ons (thank you Travelling Toddler strap!). <br />
I had my backpack on and made Gabriela carry hers on her back.<br />
I used a luggage strap to attach the second rolling carry-on (with 2nd carseat attached) to the large checked bag.<br />
Then I laid the folded stroller over the top of the train I just created.<br />
I pushed Lilian's set-up with one hand in front of me and pulled the long train (of suitcases, carseat, and stroller) behind me with the other hand, and had Gabs grab hold to a piece of something somewhere, so she wouldn't be lost in the shuffle.<br />
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We made it into the elevator and down to the platform with some ease, although graceful it was not!<br />
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The train was sitting there when we arrived, so I chose a less-crowded car and started to enter it.<br />
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I pushed Lilian on. And then I heard: <em>"BEEP BEEP BEEP {FRENCH SOMETHING ANOTHER.} PLEASE STEP BACK. THE DOORS ARE CLOSING"</em><br />
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And then I am pretty sure I uttered something people often refer to as French.<br />
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I still had my long train of luggage to drag on, which wasn't going to fit straight in, and I needed to locate my eldest child to make sure her body wasn't about to be crushed by slamming train doors. As I half debated stepping back off and waiting for the next train, I imagined Lilian sitting in her carseat getting stuck inside and me standing helpless on the platform as the train sped away. At that moment, a guy from inside the train quickly pulled Gabriela from the doorway inside the car. Both kids on the train, I was definitely committed now. So I nearly knocked down a couple folks as I, ever so not gracefully, pulled and twisted and shoved and got the rest of our belongings inside with us. I also found out that the doors will, indeed, re-open when they hit a solid object.<br />
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My hair no doubt a mess, my entire body more than a little sweaty, and my teeth in dire need of a good brushing after our 21-hour journey from home to Paris, I spent the next two stops trying to ignore the combination of pity and disgust coming from the French passengers around me with their scarves, fancy boots, and perfectly arranged hair. <br />
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At our stop, someone grabbed Gabriela's hand to lead her off and as I was maneuvering all our other stuff off, a middle-aged man grabbed the luggage train to try to help me. And it would have been a great help. Except he did not understand the finer intricacies of moving 150+ pounds of stuff with a suitcase on wheels. He attempted to get the whole thing to rise up on the suitcase's wheels by yanking on the handle with the sort of force required when moving 150 pounds of stuff.<br />
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Problem was, suitcases (as I have learned from lots of travel with heavy loads) need a gentle touch. They are not made to withstand the sort of abusive weights I make them carry. You must speak nicely to them and never. ever. yank.<br />
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Or else you end up holding the handle of the suitcase in your hand. And only the handle.<br />
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He felt badly, but obviously had other more pressing personal matters to attend to in the airport (like catching a plane or something.) So I took the no-longer-attached-to-my-suitcase handle from him, assured him we were fine, and sent him on his way.<br />
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We eventually made it into the hotel lobby thanks to Gabriela's ability to push the stroller along for me (without even being able to see over the top!) and the kind assistance of a young Frenchman who helped us along the last 300 feet of the journey.<br />
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As I wheeled into the hotel lobby, Lilian lost it. For the first time on the trip, Lilian decided she was tired, hungry, and in need of a diaper change. And was none too happy about it. She wailed as I left my heap of stuff, including kids behind me and walked to the reception desk. Where the two Ibis employees surveyed the situation, turn around, and walked away. <br />
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I think my French was getting better by the minute, as I am pretty sure I muttered some under my breath.<br />
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I waited over 5 minutes before they returned. It was a long 5-minutes with Lilian crying, Gabriela petting her and saying, "It's okay, Yay-Yay, you're okay", and I tried to pretend that I didn't know the two short little curly-headed blond people 15 feet behind me.<br />
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No luggage cart, no bellhop, no one willing to help me haul my little motley crew to the elevator across the lobby, we hobbled along on our own. Upon the reaching the 8th floor, I tossed everything out of the elevator and walked down the hall with the girls and a few of our bags. My plan was to put the girls safely in the room and run back down the hall to grab the rest of our stuff.<br />
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What I didn't consider was that Lilian, who was still crying, would really freak out when I locked her in a strange place and walked away during the height of her distress. Which would cause great distress for her sister. Who would open up the door for her poor little begging sister.<br />
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As I came back around the corner with our bags approximately 14.3 seconds after I had shut the hotel door behind me, I was met by a member of the housekeeping staff exiting a room. Her eyes got big at the sight in the hallway:<br />
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-Lilian running wildly down the hall in the opposite direction (which happened to be towards an open stairway)screaming, "MAMAAAAAAEEEE, MAMAAAAAAEEE" while bumping into walls in her tired, teary-eyed stupor.<br />
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-Gabriela running towards me yelling, "MAMAE, LILIAN SAIU!!! NO YAY-YAY! MAMAE!!!" (Mommy, Lilian got out! No Lilian! Mommy!"<br />
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-Me running down the hall dragging suitcases and carseats and yelling to Lilian that I am coming and to stop and not go to the stairs.<br />
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The poor little lady's shocked expression summed up my feelings exactly as she exclaimed, "OOH LA LA!"</div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-8217906014332502342012-04-13T10:39:00.007-05:002012-04-15T21:46:30.052-05:00Jet Set<div> </div><div>If I lived hundreds of years ago, I totally would have been a nomad. While I've got nothing against "roots", picking up and going and a frequent change of scenery brings me much joy! In fact, if it weren't that whole part about the <em>frozen tundra</em> of a land bridge (we all know I hate the cold), I like to think that I'd been with those folks who (according to the Bering Strait Theory) decided to wander on over to the Americas and see what there is to see over there. Of course, I also like to research the heck out of trips...Lonely Planet didn't exist back then, did it? Hmmm, maybe I wouldn't have been so adventurous without a guide book.<br /><br />But I digress...<br /><br />The point is, I like to go and see and do. Travel excites me. And it's been too long! I haven't been anywhere in months.<br /><br />While Eric has been all over creation here lately with work, I've been at home chasing our "chillins". But that's about change. Woohoo!<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCf3jDV0aCV0_tRN7Vb3vH5P67ltnc-loShKmy-NPIDbeGKyj2bzC4HRn-V0RBN5oS-D4KI9zadWuXKHC_6R8bDg4IBfWlwAe87lgtSnTTeFwpLho7P01Sv3WJw2c0yKSGezKGo4fq55gH/s1600/_DSC1657.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 400px; height: 266px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5730918629857026050" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCf3jDV0aCV0_tRN7Vb3vH5P67ltnc-loShKmy-NPIDbeGKyj2bzC4HRn-V0RBN5oS-D4KI9zadWuXKHC_6R8bDg4IBfWlwAe87lgtSnTTeFwpLho7P01Sv3WJw2c0yKSGezKGo4fq55gH/s400/_DSC1657.JPG" /></a><br /><br />We leave in just a couple hours to head to Chicago for the weekend. Eric was invited to a Patent Banquet his company puts on for everyone who has gotten a patent issued during the last year. So we get to get all fancied up and enjoy dinner and drinks while the girls stay with friends there in the area.<br /><br />We'll spend the rest of the weekend playing in Chicago before Eric flies out for Italy on Sunday afternoon.<br /><br />The girls and I will return home and begin preparing for our big journey!<br /><br />Next week, Gabriela, Lilian, and I will fly over and meet Eric in Paris, where he will be for an expo. After Papai is done with all his European work-stuff, he's going to take some vacation and we're going to play.<br /><br />We're renting a car and driving down through France and into Spain. We'll stop in Barcelona before continuing down the Mediterranean coast to Valencia, where Eric's youngest sister has been studying abroad this semester. We'll hang out there a few days and then fly over to Ibiza, a small island off the coast of Spain. A few days at the beach there and then we'll head back to the mainland and start out return drive back to Paris.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdvGXosB7C9H6N14QO6g8RQutKb2pdp-L6QXj5A2HJ4r6gVyw-GJ5pxeGARIJ_TK9LK6_stiH1j02NxtolKQPSc-x4VJIca-MIRvP1gN9Uygm-yLqyYneRxrMgAvNGOmX06RZXEdNz7DQe/s1600/_DSC1643edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 260px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5730918146975135074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdvGXosB7C9H6N14QO6g8RQutKb2pdp-L6QXj5A2HJ4r6gVyw-GJ5pxeGARIJ_TK9LK6_stiH1j02NxtolKQPSc-x4VJIca-MIRvP1gN9Uygm-yLqyYneRxrMgAvNGOmX06RZXEdNz7DQe/s400/_DSC1643edit.jpg" /></a><br /><br />When we get home, it's going to be May.<br /><br />And that means summer will be upon us.<br /><br />And we have lots of fun stuff planned for this summer too.<br /><br />And I am a very, very happy person!<br /><br />(I've just got to get through the flying internationally with two children by myself thing first. I know they'll do fine - they always do - but that doesn't change the fact that I get a little anxious at the thought of being outnumbered by my little people in airports and on planes and in a foreign land for many, many hours! Y'all pray for me!)</div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-74700442792445754352012-04-02T16:01:00.008-05:002012-04-03T13:31:13.277-05:00Disappointed, But GREATLY Blessed!<div><div><strong>Rejoice in the Lord always; and again I say, Rejoice. Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord <em>is</em> at hand. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be known unto God. And the peace of God, which <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">passeth</span> all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things <em>are</em> true, whatsoever things <em>are</em> honest, whatsoever things <em>are</em> just, whatsoever things <em>are</em> pure, whatsoever things <em>are</em> lovely, whatsoever things <em>are </em>of good report; if <em>there be</em> any virtue, and if <em>there be</em> any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.</strong> -<em>Philippians 4: 4-9<br /><br /></em>These verses from Paul's letter to the Philippians have given me motivation and comfort on numerous <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">occasions</span> in life. And I once again found myself turning to these words and striving to apply them daily over the last week.<br /><br />Eric and I were ecstatic to learn on March 11 that we would be adding a new baby to our family sometime around Thanksgiving this year. We began talking about birthing plans, discussing rearranging rooms, and wondering if we'd have a third girl or our very first boy. We were planning to make the big announcement to family and friends the first week of May after enjoying it being our own little secret for a while.<br /><br />And we <em>really</em> were excited for a little more time to pass so we could tell Gabriela and Lilian. Lilian is ALL ABOUT babies these days. She spends her days toting around dolls, shushing them to sleep, and wrapping them in blankets. Gabriela has taken to telling us regularly that she wants a "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">nene</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">pequeno</span>" (little baby) at our house. And when we get to spend time with the babies of our family and friends, the girls are absolutely in heaven! (The baby, not so much usually...ha!)<br /><br />So when I woke up Saturday, March 24 with heavy bleeding, our hearts ached. I called and chatted with the on-call nurse from my midwife's office. I knew what was happening and that at 6 weeks pregnant there was nothing to do but wait and see...but I needed to hear it from someone else, I guess. She suggested I plan on coming in Monday.<br /><br />After a physically and emotionally exhausting weekend (which included <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">doula</span>-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">ing</span> at a beautiful birth into the wee hours of Sunday morning), Eric and I went in to see my midwife (who I had just been working with Saturday night) on Monday morning. When she walked in, she crossed the room and wrapped me up in a hug, saying, "I'm so sorry, Emily" followed by, "You had quite a rough the day Saturday, now didn't you! Though I never would have known it."<br /><br />My midwife was fabulous, as always: super encouraging and supportive. I spent the next couple days a little sleepy and a little sad, but overall I was blessed with an incredible amount of peace. On Wednesday Eric was scheduled to leave on an 8-day trip to India. He wanted to stay, but I encouraged him to go.<br /><br />Thursday afternoon I got a phone call from my midwife. I had taken in the tissue I passed on Saturday, and she had received the report from pathology: molar pregnancy.<br /><br />At first, that prognosis seemed to make the loss a little easier. Due to a rare (1 in 1000 chance) doubling up of DNA at the time of fertilization, instead of a baby forming, an abnormal group of cells developed creating what's called a "mole".<br /><br />But the more information I got about molar pregnancies, the more concerning it became. A D&C (surgery to clean out the lining of the uterus) is almost always indicated to be certain to remove all the abnormal cells. In 15-25% of cases, chemotherapy is recommended because the abnormal cells persist and can spread into the lungs and other organs. A hysterectomy is not uncommon after a molar pregnancy (though normally not a first step unless the woman <em>wants</em> to be done having children.) In most cases, doctors need to monitor the woman's hormone levels (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span>, specifically) for 6-12 months to ensure the cells do not re-present themselves. And in order to be able to monitor <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> levels, the woman must not become pregnant during that time.<br /><br />I went from being relieved that I hadn't in actuality lost a baby to disappointed that I would have to delay having another child plus a little nervous about the other health complications that could arise. Surgery. Chemotherapy. Not exactly things you are expecting to be thinking about when you decide to add to your family!<br /><br />My midwife asked me to come in Monday, April 2 to check my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> level (through a blood test)and do an ultrasound. Those two things would help us determine the next step. Eric was prepared to come home early, as if a D&C was necessary we would need to do it right away.<br /><br />I dropped the girls off at daycare so they could play for a couple hours, and I headed to my appointment this morning. The nurse checked my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> level first and had me wait to see my midwife.<br /><br />My <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> levels were untraceable! After a normal, uncomplicated miscarriage (as if there is such a thing!), it normally takes a few weeks for your <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> levels to drop to zero. With a molar pregnancy, it usually takes weeks to months. My <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error">hcg</span> level dropped to normal, non-pregnant status in a week! My body did what it needed to do, and it did it quickly! No doubt, The Great Physician helped my body to heal!<br /><br />After also consulting with one of the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">obstetricians</span> in the office (and checking additional references), we came to the conclusion that there was no need for further testing. There is no reason to avoid future pregnancy for any amount of time. My body is perfect. Okay well, there <em>is</em> a dimple (or two or three) on my thighs, my arms stand in need of toning, and there's an inch or so to pinch on my belly...but from a functional standpoint, PERFECT. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_15" class="blsp-spelling-error">hehehe<br /><br /></span>There's no denying that the entire experience was difficult. It was hard for me to talk about (so I mostly didn't). But it has given me greater empathy for people who deal with difficult pregnancies or losses so much greater than what I went through (which in hindsight seems so trivial). And having my husband half a world away when what I wanted most was his embrace was tough. But I felt God's presence. I know the peace I had in my soul was coming from Him. And there is no doubt that having two bubbly fun little girls keeping me busy and entertained helped.</div><div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhObu9Rn2GJf1CiA63b4KvGzmw6Adx0qmsGh56M2z4jhudBZJ7mUN4qb4kYBAE92XgXd1-Y6LjkfHj_8LLByZZHA7BUXxAZomPeVaEEqzc3Wd6lWogcmSHdYGQqDDDjxGPoCvoHo12SRLJJ/s1600/_DSC1592+%25283%2529edit.jpg"> </a></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhObu9Rn2GJf1CiA63b4KvGzmw6Adx0qmsGh56M2z4jhudBZJ7mUN4qb4kYBAE92XgXd1-Y6LjkfHj_8LLByZZHA7BUXxAZomPeVaEEqzc3Wd6lWogcmSHdYGQqDDDjxGPoCvoHo12SRLJJ/s1600/_DSC1592+%25283%2529edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5727241917260249330" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhObu9Rn2GJf1CiA63b4KvGzmw6Adx0qmsGh56M2z4jhudBZJ7mUN4qb4kYBAE92XgXd1-Y6LjkfHj_8LLByZZHA7BUXxAZomPeVaEEqzc3Wd6lWogcmSHdYGQqDDDjxGPoCvoHo12SRLJJ/s400/_DSC1592+%25283%2529edit.jpg" /></a><br />One of the sweetest moments of the last 9 days occurred on the day it all began. I had just taken a mid-day shower to help me relax a bit. After getting dressed, I got a little overwhelmed and, with tears streaming down my cheeks, I dropped to my knees in my room to pray. Gabriela walked in, tapped me on the shoulder and asked, "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_16" class="blsp-spelling-error">Whatcha</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_17" class="blsp-spelling-error">doin</span>', <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_18" class="blsp-spelling-error">Mamae</span>?" Without looking up, I told her that I was asking God for help. Without hesitation, my sweet girl got on her knees right beside me, folded her hands, and said, "Bobbi <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_19" class="blsp-spelling-error">vai</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_20" class="blsp-spelling-error">razar</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_21" class="blsp-spelling-error">tambem</span>." (<em>Gabi's going to pray too</em>.) As if I wasn't crying enough already!!! (Oh my gosh, I can't even sit here and think about the moment without tears!) She remained right beside me while I silently prayed and when I whispered, "Amen", she said the same, and then gave a great big hug. I am so often at a loss for the right thing to say or do when someone is hurting, yet my almost-three-year-old knew exactly what my heart needed!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5rgbhm0HvThu2j1t0XUrh0rhdKIVBIBX6vc2k9NbHcs4ROg0-JWyuLL9GtjXbQDnxZrpRukzEb_wyf5Vaomyve-dzSakV7pBVBcKK9DSe7FwT9WMjtAuX-Qtiaqu2Q_mbByy8nJWkNm1O/s1600/_DSC1624edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5727242815191224738" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5rgbhm0HvThu2j1t0XUrh0rhdKIVBIBX6vc2k9NbHcs4ROg0-JWyuLL9GtjXbQDnxZrpRukzEb_wyf5Vaomyve-dzSakV7pBVBcKK9DSe7FwT9WMjtAuX-Qtiaqu2Q_mbByy8nJWkNm1O/s400/_DSC1624edit.jpg" /></a><br />If it is His will, we'll hopefully be making that baby announcement later this year (as if enough of you haven't been suspecting and anticipating it for months now...<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_22" class="blsp-spelling-error">hehehe</span>) Meanwhile, I'm counting down the days until my hubby gets home (3 more days until Thursday!), enjoying this fabulous weather playing outside with the girls, and thanking God for all the many blessings in my life!</div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-10538453954841760502012-03-14T14:11:00.006-05:002012-03-14T15:00:23.437-05:00Making Mommyhood a Little Easier<div>You know the old saying, "It takes a village to raise a child"? Well, I'm not sure about that. I am certain though that a village helps keep a mama functioning at full capacity.</div><div> </div><div> </div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_6cF3AUXkAC7WaQv-ZJ8pIvQn-oiyzKlxwW1JNOOGwAgkF2BvXGhyphenhyphenURX57h4NdUIg50resm9RInqZi0eex6O9yh2_bzNtiNIsL2O1dZ0PV2n3EsbxArZwQnLztih4aZqeEInMG_twlseL/s1600/_DSC1627edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 400px; height: 267px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719843676085054690" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_6cF3AUXkAC7WaQv-ZJ8pIvQn-oiyzKlxwW1JNOOGwAgkF2BvXGhyphenhyphenURX57h4NdUIg50resm9RInqZi0eex6O9yh2_bzNtiNIsL2O1dZ0PV2n3EsbxArZwQnLztih4aZqeEInMG_twlseL/s400/_DSC1627edit.jpg" /></a></div><div> </div><div>Back in September or so, one of my stay-at-home mommy friends suggested a girl's night out for dinner. So a few of us girls got gussied up and put on clothes that we normally can't wear (you know, the stuff we don't want covered in boogers or milk), left the kiddos with their fathers, and we had a lovely supper. We had some wine, we had lots of laughs, we actually were able to finish a conversation without telling anyone to sit down, take someone potty, or stop a little person from slinging their food across the table. It was AMAZING! We decided it must be a monthly ritual. We weren't sure how the hubbies would feel about it. But I guess seeing how we came home happy and refreshed and how that worked out to their advantage...well, they haven't complained a bit (or at least mine hasn't!)</div><div> </div><div> </div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNJpGic0Umzufe6fv9lcTyNB-6dNrqSdPQ7gGttKX194SjrSkuCnDaFcBh3l6y3h2kXUtLQyrEAr53omnBWXn8VWqPkC4KrVIuke3uGmyrnVgUwpuuIt6MoHWECGkIG6QEwiu7ctb-tU79/s1600/_DSC1615edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719843971705283154" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNJpGic0Umzufe6fv9lcTyNB-6dNrqSdPQ7gGttKX194SjrSkuCnDaFcBh3l6y3h2kXUtLQyrEAr53omnBWXn8VWqPkC4KrVIuke3uGmyrnVgUwpuuIt6MoHWECGkIG6QEwiu7ctb-tU79/s400/_DSC1615edit.jpg" /></a></div><div> </div><div>Then about the end of January, as the gloomy days of winter were really settling upon us, one of the mommies had the most fabulous idea: we should meet once a week in one another's homes for coffee and a playdate. Having as many as 10 children all under the age of 4 in one house (sometimes your own) might seem a little crazy. And it usually is. But to sip on coffee and chat with several other mommies (even while chasing after kids and breaking up the occasional toy battle) does very good things for morale. Tuesday mornings are a highlight of my week. Gabriela and Lilian absolutely LOVE getting to play with their friends. And I love getting to visit with other mommies who understand the joys and challenges of spending all day, every day with little people who make big messes and tend to need a lot of things wiped.</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOArtdDNc3tTbaLos7KN82hW65CUMpkZMLO7fdInTJCOOyzMViRgmMNNWuV5tY9ZkbGRNOyOufgYebUm388wfo_8ceDwAQu3IMPLS6zN9n9HgN7M25WmcqL9nN71oeWfJ8U0cUjltDFqbG/s1600/_DSC1665edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719844249722193874" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOArtdDNc3tTbaLos7KN82hW65CUMpkZMLO7fdInTJCOOyzMViRgmMNNWuV5tY9ZkbGRNOyOufgYebUm388wfo_8ceDwAQu3IMPLS6zN9n9HgN7M25WmcqL9nN71oeWfJ8U0cUjltDFqbG/s400/_DSC1665edit.jpg" /></a></div><div> </div><div>The high for today is supposed to be in the 80's (highest temp of the year, so far). So this morning, the girls and I went to a local park with two of the other mommies from our Tuesday morning group. Our five kiddos played and ran and giggled and squealed. As I basked in the sunshine and chatted with my friends, I said a little thank you prayer for these women in my life that have made my (and my children's) winter so much brighter!</div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-45764659748575992742012-03-06T12:59:00.009-06:002012-03-06T14:14:18.428-06:00Sometimes Life Requires a Plan B<div><div><div><div><div><div><br /><br />And sometimes even on Valentine's Day.<br /><br />I have always had a thing for Valentine's Day. Since 3rd grade, I pretty much always made sure to have a boyfriend, or later in life, a date, on February 14. As lame as it sounds: 1. I've always wanted the fairytale. 2. I'm a sucker for romantic. 3. I like hearts and flowers and red and pink.<br /><br />Post-kids, Valentine's Day has a little bit of a different look, but it is still fun to celebrate with all my loves.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgySsxq0sxPlA02TMHtmUSPNrvpi4BUothxXKCq2bPe4wPLPqthGELFKFX9_lGuQ6FdYHdoyzvzXwg4edH9jxOj_j1GFNKfIMyJZkj21w2ay3fLIs4pFK4MonbHcW1z539i0U8O_T7M9eBk/s1600/_DSC1608edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716876238006091378" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgySsxq0sxPlA02TMHtmUSPNrvpi4BUothxXKCq2bPe4wPLPqthGELFKFX9_lGuQ6FdYHdoyzvzXwg4edH9jxOj_j1GFNKfIMyJZkj21w2ay3fLIs4pFK4MonbHcW1z539i0U8O_T7M9eBk/s400/_DSC1608edit.jpg" /></a><br />Since the 14th was on a Tuesday this year, we decided to really celebrate with the girls the weekend before. That way, Papai could enjoy an entire day of love with us too!<br /><br />We woke up and had some family cuddle time before I made heart shaped Belgium waffles topped with chopped strawberries and whipped cream. Eric cooked up some sausage and formed it into a heart (sort of). After that we gave the girls their presents: a percussion instrument set to share and a pair of sunglasses for each of them.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7wgGJ3SEuK9n4BMJQN7uNJjtTx4vKD9Z-ojw0KVp1mOLIyC2qUyY_c65uS7hQs8l6zPFwcNbaEPhoricGjWdJF-eT5slKm8GF2Qc-hyB19wpBYUDb8FMhbdnurRHReWQOA7VlOxwR5kWT/s1600/_DSC1601.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 400px; height: 266px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716875944426818594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7wgGJ3SEuK9n4BMJQN7uNJjtTx4vKD9Z-ojw0KVp1mOLIyC2qUyY_c65uS7hQs8l6zPFwcNbaEPhoricGjWdJF-eT5slKm8GF2Qc-hyB19wpBYUDb8FMhbdnurRHReWQOA7VlOxwR5kWT/s400/_DSC1601.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Most of the rest of the day was spent making music, dancing, and lookin' cool in the new shades. We stayed in our pajamas until almost lunchtime and just had a jolly good time together. (There were only a few moments throughout the day that I questioned our sanity for buying the children a drum and other loud toys...fostering musical talent be danged! I like QUIET!...but no, really, I wanted them to have a chance to make music since I am so seriously deficient in that department! And they do LOVE it!)<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYFQXFrQe7ZXN6A9HTd_G53mlTAohaHhG2H5QbuSaSzaC9eZ1kZ7M3sQTjOHWoQVDFCrOhYpMlhaFKPegy9tlm5oJR3PrOeViB9uYbrfdbED1AFmk6IyZ9nfpmOkRkWupcJ_ALvjLAdbje/s1600/_DSC1611edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716876598917558914" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYFQXFrQe7ZXN6A9HTd_G53mlTAohaHhG2H5QbuSaSzaC9eZ1kZ7M3sQTjOHWoQVDFCrOhYpMlhaFKPegy9tlm5oJR3PrOeViB9uYbrfdbED1AFmk6IyZ9nfpmOkRkWupcJ_ALvjLAdbje/s400/_DSC1611edit.jpg" /></a><br />A couple days later, as the real Valentine's Day rolled around, we decided to avoid the hassle of a sitter and fancy meal on such a busy day. Instead, we decided to opt for all going out for Mexican food (a family favorite - both girls are obsessed with salsa, they eat so much of it when we go out) and then making a fun dessert together after the kiddos were in bed.<br /><br />But...as has been happening an awful lot the last several months, Eric got stuck in the office. He was hoping to be home by 5:00 or 5:30. I think I held out until about 6:45 at which point the girls were starving, starting to get tired, and beginning to frazzle their mama's nerves (who had been pretty excited about a nice evening on Valentine's Day). Not having planned to cook supper, I had nothing ready or thawed out. So I grabbed a frozen pizza and threw it in the oven. Eric got home right about the time I started cutting it up...<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFj3vlxEWuxVR9R0AZJJVJ0bxizETNNm3BgsggR7j-EgZ4xmS2aG0Y9buD4iUy3FJt7LqkzFZuxg1os5lvm8SZc5nXn0rOwpEcy1s2o3_rLUK3-wFCD7vT7B3YCPdl6vNWeJboNvECJU3J/s1600/_DSC1613edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716876997456140274" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFj3vlxEWuxVR9R0AZJJVJ0bxizETNNm3BgsggR7j-EgZ4xmS2aG0Y9buD4iUy3FJt7LqkzFZuxg1os5lvm8SZc5nXn0rOwpEcy1s2o3_rLUK3-wFCD7vT7B3YCPdl6vNWeJboNvECJU3J/s400/_DSC1613edit.jpg" /></a><br /><br />Extremely apologetic and a little annoyed with his job, he joined us for our special V-Day dinner...it was, after all, <em>rising crust</em> frozen pizza (ooooooohhhh-aaaaaaaaawwww . . . special, no?) I tried to hide my own disappointment, and got Gabriela pumped up to have Eric open his presents from me (shiatsu neck massager - since his neck is always bothering him, some new shirts, and a special Year of Romance package I created with an envelope to open each month of the year with special "date" suggestions for us - it was really fun to make!) He pulled out some presents for me too (some cute new clothes and coffee he knew I'd like.) <br /><br />We finally put the monkeys to bed, a little past their bedtime, and then he inquired as to what kind of dessert I wanted to make with him. Exhausted from an extra-long day with the girls (plus an extra little one I babysat for a friend that day) and a smidgen pouty from not having things go as planned, I suggested he just go get the ice cream from the freezer and two spoons. We collapsed on the couch and ate ice cream out of the container.<br /><br />My 13-year-old version of me would have been most disappointed. (To his credit, I should add that Eric had shown up unannounced at lunchtime and brought me a bouquet of roses and a card.) And admittedly, the 30-year-old version of me really doesn't like it when plans fall through. Which seems silly since the plan was nothing stellar; it was just our local Mexican restaurant. But getting significantly less time with my sweetie on the Day of Sweeties made me sad, I guess.</div><div> </div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR7ZCuAUeu8VJ-raNukO_YukHc1t3yh6-IIDB6PpO5DpaGefPuWrxCo-J4hEZUWjk8NJG9vtQ4C1dc0OtQw067aDrnd25hKd_sxbV7UwFZkqsi9KTuF_TpSje8oREpYnZWbpVne2WL66xV/s1600/_DSC1617edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716877350407389666" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR7ZCuAUeu8VJ-raNukO_YukHc1t3yh6-IIDB6PpO5DpaGefPuWrxCo-J4hEZUWjk8NJG9vtQ4C1dc0OtQw067aDrnd25hKd_sxbV7UwFZkqsi9KTuF_TpSje8oREpYnZWbpVne2WL66xV/s400/_DSC1617edit.jpg" /></a><br />But, you know what? Life happens. I'm blessed to have a hard working husband with a job that supports our family so that I can stay home with our children. He totally adores me and tells me I'm beautiful even when my hair is in a messy ponytail and I'm looking completely grungy and not even a little bit cute. We have a nice house, reliable vehicles, and even some fun toys. I have two gorgeous girls that make everyday exciting and full of laughter and joy. We have a wonderful family and some awesome friends. And you know, I AM living out that fairytale I always wanted.</div><div><br />I just didn't know that sometimes my fairytale would involve frozen pizza on Valentine's Day. But aren't the surprises in the story what make life fun?!?<br /><br />And let's be honest. After getting to spend last year's Valentine's Day on the beach in Rio de Janeiro, I think we all saw the disappointment coming this year! hahaha<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5aVMIjgCZ6C6B43eZPCPsJv3DWw7V2ZEvklLA8wWd0TJHuI87boUSZuWerb9WDlJ9KQbXmWr02xtmu_jIpmCxIRHmdL4GWnmG-EIwFoSscNSSjr938b2MoyXXN2PQ4ocvh00q8OyY5yd7/s1600/_DSC1616.JPG"></a></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5aVMIjgCZ6C6B43eZPCPsJv3DWw7V2ZEvklLA8wWd0TJHuI87boUSZuWerb9WDlJ9KQbXmWr02xtmu_jIpmCxIRHmdL4GWnmG-EIwFoSscNSSjr938b2MoyXXN2PQ4ocvh00q8OyY5yd7/s1600/_DSC1616.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5716877955103948594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5aVMIjgCZ6C6B43eZPCPsJv3DWw7V2ZEvklLA8wWd0TJHuI87boUSZuWerb9WDlJ9KQbXmWr02xtmu_jIpmCxIRHmdL4GWnmG-EIwFoSscNSSjr938b2MoyXXN2PQ4ocvh00q8OyY5yd7/s400/_DSC1616.JPG" /></a></div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-28649331485306404242012-02-13T14:06:00.011-06:002012-02-15T16:01:05.459-06:00New Year, New Schedule!<div><br /><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 400px; height: 267px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709480632658213202" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwEWNhL9Nis0_HKmr4qP9QgVajwUmWIjA0gpxjiKCHklk6dwX4pkU9zQErWc7kR-iJw9p89-hEx80oefM5VWCQrL8UhfuyZXOwD-GqtNyR33BpGsNd_ma51tZSOWAKXU_y56vfsMrcCuZS/s400/_DSC1637edit.jpg" /><br /><br />About December last year, I determined that we needed a change around our house. Our days seemed long, the children were bored, and I was just absolutely exhausted by the end of the day.<br /><br />I took a long, honest look at myself and our days, and I posed this question to myself:<br /><br /><em><strong>If I were paying someone to keep my children every day, would I be happy if this is what they did?<br /><br /></strong></em>I found it quite convicting. I realized much of my day was spent trying to "get stuff done". Sure I sat and played some with the girls, and they got fed, and all that jazz. But a majority of my time was spent trying to engage them in some activity to keep them out from under my feet (or off my lap) so I could accomplish something. And the result was 1. Gabriela was bored and getting into trouble, 2. Lilian constantly trying to cling onto me, and 3. I was frustrated because I couldn't get anything done.<br /><div><div> </div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLLVMz5iKuZenQgctVJ74u5jsHGLBDu3VkOBYRDQ6eMCx3U7oXa9btm4tiaaUpMvwo_Bg06q8-uhQwzTC3D_KAsPjt1rThQRx1exJGmSDIVeJl-QI7mNwcrvm8LFQErM1TasjtKbc0ZiGk/s1600/_DSC1589edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709480065916419602" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLLVMz5iKuZenQgctVJ74u5jsHGLBDu3VkOBYRDQ6eMCx3U7oXa9btm4tiaaUpMvwo_Bg06q8-uhQwzTC3D_KAsPjt1rThQRx1exJGmSDIVeJl-QI7mNwcrvm8LFQErM1TasjtKbc0ZiGk/s400/_DSC1589edit.jpg" /></a><br /><br />But maybe the worst of it was when I really thought about that big question above. I would be pretty unhappy with my daycare provider if she spent most of her day trying to keep a clean house, handle paperwork, answer emails, etc. I want to be at home raising my children and taking care of their needs. But if I would not be content with a paid babysitter doing what I was doing during the day, what does that say about the "at home with mom is best" argument?<br /><br />After a big slice of humble pie and admiting my shortcomings to the hubby (who is a smart guy and responded with something like, "Well, it's fine if you want to change things, but I think you already do great with the girls"), I decided I needed a great big attitude and outlook adjustment. Along with a new plan!<br /><br />The first thing I decided was that I need to approach this like a paid job. From the time Eric leaves in the morning until he is home in the evening, I am the babysitter/daycare provider/preschool teacher/whatever you want to call me. Instead of me being out earning an income to help support our family, we have made the choice for me to be the kids' careprovider. That is my job while Eric is away from home. Now obviously, I am also trying to run a household and a small little birth business, and I am going to have to deal with some of that throughout my day. But my main priority <em>should</em> be caring for, educating, and raising the girls.<br /><br /></div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQUMGFuWNRh6G-Btio0RIcv6UesIAHyEh6j1akfpqEVEZdjnL2KjgPjUgwuFV6sWAqloHWEMT8X2WD74rCuRB-jsEfwJyiJMugoeTeQPtGafNHyLY9XJUEowow9K7YG0JpWhyphenhyphenndaBwPNu/s1600/_DSC1586edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709480061146040786" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQUMGFuWNRh6G-Btio0RIcv6UesIAHyEh6j1akfpqEVEZdjnL2KjgPjUgwuFV6sWAqloHWEMT8X2WD74rCuRB-jsEfwJyiJMugoeTeQPtGafNHyLY9XJUEowow9K7YG0JpWhyphenhyphenndaBwPNu/s400/_DSC1586edit.jpg" /></a><br />I know myself well enough to know that if anything was going to change, I needed to develop a specific plan and put it in writing. (Let's be honest, I am not very accountable when it's all just in my head...it's WAY too easy for me to justify not doing it!) So I pulled out my little netbook one day the first week of January and created my plan of attack. It looked something like this:<br /><br />8:00 Girls up and get dressed</div><div>8:30 Breakfast</div><div>9:00 Preschool Lesson</div><div>9:15 Sibling Playtime</div><div>10:00 Lilian Naps/Gabriela Helps Me with Chores</div><div>10:45 Gabriela Arts and Crafts Time</div><div>12:00 Lunch</div><div>12:30 Bible Story</div><div>12:45 Physical Activity of Some Sort</div><div>1:00 Independent Playtime in Their Rooms</div><div>1:30 Gabriela Naps/Lilian Reads, Cuddles, and Plays with Me</div><div>2:00 Lilian Naps</div><div>3:30 Wake-Up Snack </div><div>3:45 Sibling Playtime</div><div>4:30 TV Time (While I Fix Supper)<br /><br />I figured I had better see if it stuck for a while before actually sharing my ambition with the world. Six weeks later, I am ready now to say that it has been wonderful!<br /><br />We pretty normally break the routine. Like on Tuesday mornings, we have a standing playdate with some other stay-at-home moms and their kids. Lilian misses her nap, Gabriela misses chores and crafts. We regularly have to run errands sometime during the day. I delay naptime a little if I know we have something in the evening that the girls need to be well rested for. If Lilian is still sleeping at 8:30, I let her! But just having a schedule to fall back on when we are home and things are "normal" has been a game-changer for me!<br /><br />The "preschool lesson" has been great too! I decided to keep it real simple to start with - especially since Gabs isn't even 3 yet. But each day after breakfast, while they are still strapped in their high chair and booster seat, I spent about 15 minutes to introduce a letter, number, and shape of the day. We talk about each one, find lots of examples, and I get to sing, jump around, and be silly. Both girls LOVE it, Gabriela is doing great with learning (even Lilian has been picking some of it up!), and I must admit that it's a fun way to start my day too!<br /><br />Along with the new schedule, I created a cleaning schedule for myself, and I have Gabriela help me while Lilian naps in the mornings. It has been really helpful in "making" me keep up with the housework a little better and having the house stay "company-ready", which is one of my goals for the year.<br /><br />I have been trying hard to save other random responsibilities (and pleasures, like anything involving the internet) for their afternoon naptime or independent playtime.<br /><br />The new routine has provided me with the structure to teach, permission for myself to play more, some one-on-one time with each of them, and a time to do things with Gabriela (crafts, etc.) that Lilian isn't old enough for. They are never bored, and I have seen big improvements in behavior since no one is fighting for my attention anymore. I actually manage to get a whole lot more done now, and everyone is happier.<br /></div><div> </div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3JT_Eaineo1_IeppVPA60-kWxVlu6ASaGc3wVoTxfde0LIQivQJpDTu4qg3RO24_G1l2did9ynzwEij3yVcGybGxkLgB0UyndrmMiN4CtI8k-WZANcJMoz4qaxKTyfAe4Cgwe2HNJEJei/s1600/_DSC1642.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 400px; height: 266px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709481111087281506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3JT_Eaineo1_IeppVPA60-kWxVlu6ASaGc3wVoTxfde0LIQivQJpDTu4qg3RO24_G1l2did9ynzwEij3yVcGybGxkLgB0UyndrmMiN4CtI8k-WZANcJMoz4qaxKTyfAe4Cgwe2HNJEJei/s400/_DSC1642.JPG" /></a><br />It's been lovely. And while I don't think it is the perfect schedule or solution for every family, my-oh-my has it made a big difference for us! Just by changing my attitude and deciding that teaching and playing with the girls is my JOB has given me the freedom to save the dishes for later and just sit on the floor and play. And guess what? I actually get more dishes done this way! And save my sanity. (For the most part...Can you really be completely sane when you spend all day with a 1 year old and a 2 year old? Evidence would suggest that you spend your time talking about poop a lot more than a normal person should.)<br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTHGUzXbU9-soaoKu-QbO-ozBqTuXA_t_OEN7oFvF2dK7NWCGJZ2eZbO38k8nQENl57iILYvYCd1tXGQXsoWGXDmuEuFN2K5LmVOaL9n79rvfNFLOJ-cSogOtnuNjoRhJyrD3pFyko-oDW/s1600/_DSC1591+%25282%2529edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709482149422868226" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTHGUzXbU9-soaoKu-QbO-ozBqTuXA_t_OEN7oFvF2dK7NWCGJZ2eZbO38k8nQENl57iILYvYCd1tXGQXsoWGXDmuEuFN2K5LmVOaL9n79rvfNFLOJ-cSogOtnuNjoRhJyrD3pFyko-oDW/s400/_DSC1591+%25282%2529edit.jpg" /></a></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-39220942761169642552012-01-30T10:12:00.014-06:002012-02-01T15:34:29.592-06:00An Explanation of Why Eric Will Soon Be GrayAlternate Title 1: An Explanation of Why Gabriela Might Not Be Allowed to Leave the House Until She's 30<br /><br />Alternate Title 2: An Explanation of Why Eric is Requesting Firearms for Every Major Holiday for the Next 16 Years<br /><br /><br />While the jury is still out on our little Lilian, I think we can safely assume that Gabriela is going to give her father a lot of gray hair. And it's not just because she is my daughter and I have it coming to me. (Stop smirking, Dad!)...<div><div><br /><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704277892377019986" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkXrL_Qx3u3emkGuFhen98rb-A9O0bUTShymqPUrq0ApXWC69vw1qlk0Z1Bp_mtEZ4Mov9sWDgqtICsAWDNp9KxS0Q4r1u7V6C8ysPArHvLnDrz0T2yy0y6oxytRS0-k3C3pHy2DMX83oE/s400/_DSC0711edit.jpg" /> </div><div><div>I'll share a few pieces of recent evidence to support my theory.<br /><br />Concerning Behavior Example #1: Dressing Like the Women Featured on TLC's What Not To Wear<br /><br />I hit up a consignment shop's half-price sale a couple weeks ago and bought a bunch of stuff for the girls. Gabriela, who LOVES clothes, was beyond excited when I got home and she got to go through it all! It was like Christmas all over again. After sorting through, removing tags, and getting everything ready to be washed, Eric and I went into the kitchen to prepare lunch. When we called Gabriela in to eat, she came strutting into the kitchen wearing one of her new outfits. Well, if you consider a denim skirt and ruffly bikini top an "outfit", that is. She was ooooohing and aaaaahing and twirling to show off her dining-wear of choice. (I wish I'd captured the moment, but the second I suggested that it wasn't an acceptable outfit, she stripped naked.)</div><div><br /> </div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPexFDuliomXqfWP7c75uEtUUUiB27V0dwlZAVY6HKNskfmQezzRHoXzdiHnyQXFQtG8WoyIMgfFzN_BjijlBqILNseO0bG9OeEQOvSktPbivIQxecziZMhMk_sJK7WVT9xwAC1VEXIpVc/s1600/_DSC1503edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704278821234582690" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPexFDuliomXqfWP7c75uEtUUUiB27V0dwlZAVY6HKNskfmQezzRHoXzdiHnyQXFQtG8WoyIMgfFzN_BjijlBqILNseO0bG9OeEQOvSktPbivIQxecziZMhMk_sJK7WVT9xwAC1VEXIpVc/s400/_DSC1503edit.jpg" /></a><div></div>Concerning Behavior Example #2: Dress, High Heels and Pearls. Minus the Dress<br /><br />Her outfits of choice are always interesting. She is constantly changing her clothes throughout the day and she love dress-up. Her father found it mildly concerning that when she got a box full of dress-up clothes and accessories from her Nena and Papa, she chose to strip down to her panties and wear the heels and jewelry...and refused to put on a dress. (She also totally flipped out when Nena tried to put the clip-on earring on her. I guess it's a good thing I went against the grain in Brasil and didn't pierce her ears as a baby. Seems she loves accessories, but not if it involves her ear lobes.)<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPWnx1b2_1TqAYOfcsP0ph-qpeIbf5YnVMhzcx2nOQJHldTS_-fRkNpvEAG0LNpWUIrErbYcG7PyiBS-Gzh70vOGbaBYzl8i3Gs40Uwuw1B2qaURlE1GY-SCmKcNcDO5l2p0yq8-camSx8/s1600/_DSC1501.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704278824395245618" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPWnx1b2_1TqAYOfcsP0ph-qpeIbf5YnVMhzcx2nOQJHldTS_-fRkNpvEAG0LNpWUIrErbYcG7PyiBS-Gzh70vOGbaBYzl8i3Gs40Uwuw1B2qaURlE1GY-SCmKcNcDO5l2p0yq8-camSx8/s400/_DSC1501.JPG" /></a><div><br />Concerning Behavior #3: Forget the Used Lot, She Wants NEW!<br /><br />Walking through the airport after seeing Grandpa off on Sunday, we walked past a Model T on display. Gabriela stopped and observed the vehicle, looking it over well, before asking, "What dat, Mamae? What dat?" I told her that it was a very, very old car. Thinking on that answer for a moment and then turning away, Gabs shook her head and firmly declared, "<em>Bobbi* nao gosta carros velhos."</em> (Gabi doesn't like old cars.) And then with a little bounce and skip, said, nearly singing,<em>"Bobbi gosta carros NOVOS!" </em>(Gabi likes NEW cars!) <em>*She calls herself Bobbi or La-lela for Gabi or Gabriela.<br /></em><br /></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKdpRmL1XXDdb6kfdcmcrk9dWGJs7a_kghMvzTtmbr6F6mT26k16hFr0Bd4s3Nojx4j8aCWMh4TlX71dJYuuxlzOEzJsEOLyg3jtPOS1_uJEgHjWVG5n5KXvKX0F4efK86GUTqDXFQ5KqJ/s1600/_DSC1146+%25282%2529edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704277514498825506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKdpRmL1XXDdb6kfdcmcrk9dWGJs7a_kghMvzTtmbr6F6mT26k16hFr0Bd4s3Nojx4j8aCWMh4TlX71dJYuuxlzOEzJsEOLyg3jtPOS1_uJEgHjWVG5n5KXvKX0F4efK86GUTqDXFQ5KqJ/s400/_DSC1146+%25282%2529edit.jpg" /></a></div><div> </div><div>Concerning Behavior #4: A Fondness for Good Looking Fellas (Besides her Daddy)<br /><br />While sitting in the truck waiting for Eric outside of his office last week, lots of people were exiting and walking past where we were parked. As each person walked by, Gabriela would ask, <em>"Quem isso, Mamae? Quem isso?"</em> (Who's that Mommy? Who's that?) I knew the names of most of the people, so I was able to tell her.<br /><br />After playing this game with about a dozen people, out walked someone I didn't recognize. He was young (oh, okay, so he was about my age I think...maybe "young-ish" is the better term?), tall, dark, and what an unmarried woman might consider rather handsome (not that I notice those things at all...I only have eyes for you, my Dear). Gabriela asked the same question, <em>"Quem isso, Mamae? Quem isso?"</em> I told her I didn't know his name, but that he was a colleague of Papai's. Gabriela watched intently as he walked on by and then responded with a big smile and nodding her head emphatically, <em>"Oooooooh, Bobbi gosta da colega do Papai!"</em> (Gabi likes Papai's colleague!)<br /><br />Concerning Behavior #5: Sometimes a Photo Speaks For Itself<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyXS8QKf5ZPPxbHxwY8eTNaB5ECKXXrheCv3x70NmuWzWuZSyK6-rJOG5WNiaVk_cmJdd3OfAbI1MfiYgwOpdykL02heiDUg4lSsV5GlMRPwHzWtoRwjD6gvgnfsC7ia8XJoh2ddlsUUtS/s1600/_DSC1506edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704277114619090146" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyXS8QKf5ZPPxbHxwY8eTNaB5ECKXXrheCv3x70NmuWzWuZSyK6-rJOG5WNiaVk_cmJdd3OfAbI1MfiYgwOpdykL02heiDUg4lSsV5GlMRPwHzWtoRwjD6gvgnfsC7ia8XJoh2ddlsUUtS/s400/_DSC1506edit.jpg" /></a></div></div><div><br />I regularly find the child in her room, scantily clad, and up on her vanity posing in front of the mirror.</div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-31030703918268758092012-01-17T14:09:00.007-06:002012-01-18T10:55:52.727-06:00The One About Poo<div>I know, I know. It's been forever since I've posted. I'm sure I've left everyone with lots of questions about our life: How is everyone? What are the girls up to these days? How cold is it in Iowa right now? And with any luck, I'll get to that stuff one of these days. Today however, I am led in a different: The girls' digestive systems. Yes, let's break the silence on the blog with some good poop talk...'cause that's what you do when you're a parent. You talk about poop.<br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilYrdriPu8UhHJFK_7ysP1ujuw0HVoOx7Wo10Fk8IXHDPE3wSFkdBzdopbR3S9MhL1t6iLbWC3bFqXhx8QmYAm-j9YSW-IEVKfKV8pKD2gTMmevzfEMMicvZ2u4gFTHKoh65Vvmb-UAohE/s1600/_DSC1417edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 266px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698716732306129426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilYrdriPu8UhHJFK_7ysP1ujuw0HVoOx7Wo10Fk8IXHDPE3wSFkdBzdopbR3S9MhL1t6iLbWC3bFqXhx8QmYAm-j9YSW-IEVKfKV8pKD2gTMmevzfEMMicvZ2u4gFTHKoh65Vvmb-UAohE/s400/_DSC1417edit.jpg" /></a><br /><br />We'll start with the little one. Lilian, my sweet Lilian. Whose first word was "mama" just before 11 months. Whose 2nd word was just about a month ago. It was "gaaaaa" (gas). Yes, my little petite cupcake's second word was gas. And to date, it remains her favorite. She enjoys announcing to the world whenever she toots or burps. She is also quick to let the world know when anyone else around her passes gas...and she often points at the offender. You can't get away with anything around that one. Be warned.<br /><br />It should also be noted that besides being highly entertained by bodily functions, there is something about the car seat that makes the kid fill her diaper. You frequently go the door on her side and are met by a giant, contented grin, maybe even an excited squeal, and the stench of a poop-filled diaper. Which often escapes the diaper (<em>always</em> escapes if she is wearing a disposable) and fills up her pants legs and possibly even the car seat. I'm not sure if her pleasure is derived from the fact that she feels better with her bowels empty or that she finds humor in knowing the mess someone else is about to have to clean up. Either way, it's really quite charming. (<--insert sarcastic tone here)<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZMdNSLa_q55kgp4NQaW8kmPjwVP8CvaxqCipgvjKzQQP9Diguj7fAeDyR7Iqdf_GfqEgKgLcG0ETCkNhnOxgeoUTg2_h1Mjzne-zguAXQxyFRL6mI8hzhRTmRheiug_T0V_SNrJVqtHrX/s1600/_DSC1457edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698718797153236946" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZMdNSLa_q55kgp4NQaW8kmPjwVP8CvaxqCipgvjKzQQP9Diguj7fAeDyR7Iqdf_GfqEgKgLcG0ETCkNhnOxgeoUTg2_h1Mjzne-zguAXQxyFRL6mI8hzhRTmRheiug_T0V_SNrJVqtHrX/s400/_DSC1457edit.jpg" /></a><br />And then there is Gabriela. Or Miss Fiber as I believe I might start calling her. More than once she has snuck off with a box of prunes and totally chowed down until I caught her. (Note, a child who eats a half pound of prunes in the morning will be spending the afternoon sitting on the potty. In the case of my two year old, that is considered a benefit of said activity. Much like her sister's fascination with gas, Gabs gets exceptionally excited about pooping.) When not eating copious amounts of prunes, she enjoys bran flakes or All-Bran bran buds, fruits of all kind, sweet corn, beans...she's a proctologist's dream patient. The kid loves her fiber. Which I'm going to credit for afternoons like today.<br /><br />Just as I got up the counter at the bank today with two children en tow, Gabriela announced that she needed to "faz cocô". It's moments like these that I am thankful we speak Portuguese, as I don't believe everyone in the bank wished to hear about her need for a toilet at that moment. I asked her if she could wait just a few minutes, and she told me she could. Although the look in her eyes said otherwise. I asked the teller if there was a bathroom we could use, but I was informed there was no public restroom. I told Gabs she would have to wait just a moment. The transaction at the bank counter was taking longer than it should. Gabriela continued to remind me she needed to poop. I explained that the two year old really needed a potty, but the nice teller explained to me that we were not allowed to use the restroom at the bank. Moments later, as I continued to wait on the teller to finish our transaction, I watched as Gabs got a most concerned look on her face, and then, with tears building, she told me that she had cocô in her new monkey panties.<br /><br />It should be noted that a diet high in fiber leads to rather soft stools. Rather soft stools are rather difficult for a two year old to control. And getting poop in your new panties is really upsetting. Especially when they are your favorite ones with monkeys on them.<br /><br />It's not a lot of fun to clean soft poo out of monkey panties in the bank parking lot either - you know, since we couldn't use the bathroom there, and I wasn't about to make the poor kid sit in her car seat with her pants full. That's for Lilian to do. Which she did. On the way home from the bank.<br /></div></div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNOrSLVAozbZBFd_aVcxCO07vJMqC7xNXbci2YxufYZt3vdYcurKfyqFIY5FmC8WgDFRg9d-VrcHv9Vjuso9ER5AjLuMEskk27jFiA_y5HvYKIgbtXt3aWTD7d-BfaOab1xL3PkdDbB1mm/s1600/_DSC1156edit.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; width: 267px; height: 400px; text-align: center; display: block; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698717325203607282" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNOrSLVAozbZBFd_aVcxCO07vJMqC7xNXbci2YxufYZt3vdYcurKfyqFIY5FmC8WgDFRg9d-VrcHv9Vjuso9ER5AjLuMEskk27jFiA_y5HvYKIgbtXt3aWTD7d-BfaOab1xL3PkdDbB1mm/s400/_DSC1156edit.jpg" /></a>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-83125119921996258922011-10-03T08:03:00.005-05:002011-10-03T08:59:52.488-05:00Marvelous Moments in Mothering<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYAieWaKvAOYSewsr-aoKlLmpSBPdLDFyVdmnhdahwbk7kThMpBGiuORnuoYmMNxtXx74yCIQJ841ASMBVaw2_xIEaQFFIw7kg4JkHcGyy_brKmHtjhLeO7bddbvzU9wmMSP_0-jQQyX36/s1600/Gabi.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659264760805535074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYAieWaKvAOYSewsr-aoKlLmpSBPdLDFyVdmnhdahwbk7kThMpBGiuORnuoYmMNxtXx74yCIQJ841ASMBVaw2_xIEaQFFIw7kg4JkHcGyy_brKmHtjhLeO7bddbvzU9wmMSP_0-jQQyX36/s400/Gabi.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><div>My Grandad tells the story of being just a few years old and having a bigger kid shove half of an acorn in his ear. When he came home and told Granny, my great grandmother, she made some comment about him needing to quit telling tall tales (she probably then gave him a dose of castor oil to clean the fibbing out of him - although I'm just guessing on that part.) He never mentioned that acorn again. A few years later, Grandad was seeing the doctor for a problem with his ear. As the doctor was flushing out his ear, something fell out into the metal bowl with a "clank". After careful inspection, it turned out to be a partially disintegrated half of an acorn. As a mother, I'd think that would leave you feeling a little guilty. But Granny and Papa had four kids and a big farm (that was tilled with mules), and I'm pretty sure they didn't have indoor plumbing yet. Granny probably didn't have time for such things as guilt.</div><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div>The last week or so, every time I put Gabriela's new sneakers on her feet, she says (in her most dramatic tone), "O<em>oooooo, tiiiiiiight</em>". It's one of her favorite words right now, and uses it every chance she gets, so every day I've told her, "Look kid, these shoes are a size bigger than you normally wear, they are NOT tight. They're fine." And that quiets her down and she never mentions it again. Until the next time I put her shoes on her.</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><div>Last night, after the girls were in bed, I was in the bathroom scrubbing Gabs' shoes. Scrubbing shoes is not normally part of my routine, but I was doing it yesterday. Partially because they were black and yucky from walking the streets of Belo Horizonte and just needed it. Partially because I didn't want to get <a href="http://ericandemilysadventures.blogspot.com/2010/06/bare-arms-and-dirty-shoes-signs-of.html">scolded again</a> while on the streets of Belo Horizonte by some random woman. But mostly because I was tired of getting my clothes dirty every time I picked her up.<br /></div><br /><div>So anyway, I was scrubbing her shoes in the bathroom sink and decided to pull out the insoles so they would dry faster. When I did, a sock fell out of each shoe. Apparently, Eric or I (let's blame it on Eric) stuffed her socks into her shoes, most likely after she kicked them off in the car on the way home from supper, and we ended up carrying her and her footwear into the hotel. And apparently, instead of taking the socks out before the next time she wore her shoes, one of us (let's blame it on Eric) just shoved her little foot in there, wading up the sock into the toe of her shoe. </div><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg4T4GSeylB5WgnAsM4jOAK2p9FbXLxYAWjNgf7g5KDilr6lYPJHTrelAoV0qDn2wkVGz2L5qjtZ4bsAF6GR88o9toWxVSaLGBRzU3D2jp7SgskBronI1za05AAKusZowQTHsPDSO9D7bS/s1600/Gabi2.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659264762815825106" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg4T4GSeylB5WgnAsM4jOAK2p9FbXLxYAWjNgf7g5KDilr6lYPJHTrelAoV0qDn2wkVGz2L5qjtZ4bsAF6GR88o9toWxVSaLGBRzU3D2jp7SgskBronI1za05AAKusZowQTHsPDSO9D7bS/s400/Gabi2.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div>Turns out, her shoes probably <em>were</em> feeling a little tight every time we put them on her. We should maybe listen to the kid sometimes.</div><br /><br /><div>And I did feel a little guilty about blowing off her comment and the fact that she has been walking around with her toes all crammed up due to socks being shoved into the end of her shoes.</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><div>But then I remembered Granny. And it's not like she had a sock shoved into an oriface or anything. So then I felt better.</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><div>We are taking off this evening to make the journey back to the US after a glorious 17 days in Brasil. Gabriela will have clean shoes for the voyage. And they will be significantly less <em>tiiiiiight</em>.</div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-13196326307652306482011-09-19T10:12:00.007-05:002011-09-26T12:28:07.619-05:0044 lbs of kids, 146 lbs of luggage (plus carseats)A 1.5 hour car ride, 3 flights (one international), 1 bus, and a taxi ride over the course of 26 hours is a little daunting alone with a toddler and an infant. But when Eric realized he needed to be in India for almost two weeks and then fly straight to Brasil for another two weeks, I saw no other option. Mama wasn't about to spend the entire month of September alone with the kids! Eric had all kinds of excuses as to why he couldn't take the children with him and leave me in peace for a month (some nonsense about needing to accomplish some <em>work</em>?)<br /><br />So the girls and I drove up to Cedar Rapids on Thursday morning, hopped a plane to Dallas, killed 5 hours in the airport, boarded an overnight flight to Rio de Janeiro, made our way through customs and immigration, checked into another airline, and finally made it into Belo Horizonte's airport at 11:00 am on Friday morning. My Brasil BFF, Megan, met me at the airport and helped me lug the two girls, their two carseats, and all 146 pounds of luggage on board the airport shuttle bus to downtown BH and then transfer it all to a taxi and into her apartment. The president of Brasil happened to be making an appearance here at the moment we arrived and traffic was a nightmare. Our 10 minute taxi ride took 1 1/2 hours. I was rather delirious by the time we arrived. And very ready for a nap. The girls were exceptionally well rested and ready to party it up. Megan totally saved me.<br /><br />The girls were AMAZING. No, really. I know they are my kids. And I know everyone thinks their own kids are awesome. But seriously. I was a bit anxious about the whole journey. I played out every imaginable scenario in my mind to try and figure out what I would do if my two year old darted off and snuck onto a plane to Abu Dhadi and simultaneously Lilian had a massive blow out while attached to me and we both were completely covered in poop. I think I was prepared to handle anything the kids, the FAA, or the airline might throw at me. But it was so easy. Despite that I probably gave myself an ulcer in the days leading up to our travels, the girls made me look like SuperMommy! You could see the not-at-all-pleased looks of airline employees, security checkers, flight attendants, and other passengers as they saw me coming with two little ones all by myself. But we had won them all over by the time we walked away and received so many compliments.<br /><br />I talked to Gabriela a lot in the couple days leading up to our trip and told her all about what we were going to do and how she was really going to have to follow directions well. Our daily prayers included a request for easy flights, for Gabriela and Lilian to behave themselves, and for Mamãe to have lots and lots of patience and stamina. And oh how blessed we were!<br /><br />Gabriela, who is basically a good kid, but is only two and doesn't always mind perfectly, did everything I asked her to do. The first time I asked. And never once complained. Never once whined. Never once cried (except for at the very end of our final flight when she really wanted to look out the window and I told her she had to sit down and buckle up, but it lasted less than 20 seconds).<br /><br />Lilian was a total champ. She was so easy going and content. She is crawling and cruising like crazy and hates to be contained right now, so I was sure she'd have a hard time with having to sit in her carseat for such long stretches of time. She was lacking in the sleep department by the end of it all, but, same as Gabs, never whined or cried. At all!<br /><br />There was one moment on the overnight flight at about 4:00 am when I looked over at my two sleeping beauties and got totally teary-eyed. Not really like me at all, but I was so overwhelmed with how well behaved they had both been despite missing naps and being rushed around and being confined to carseats and told they must be quiet. I think it was partially just the exhaustion setting in (as I hadn't had much sleep the night before either with all the last minute preparations for the trip), but I seriously had to stop looking over at the angelic children beside me for fear of starting the waterworks. Plus, I didn't want to get too attached to that idea of my children...I knew it wouldn't last forever and didn't want to be disappointed when they returned to their normal ornery selves later on. haha<br /><br />I also decided that patience is a lot easier to come by when your kids are behaving. I try to be a calm, patient person on a daily basis, especially when it comes to dealing with the babes. And while I <em>usually</em> succeed and have a cool exterior, I am often boiling over on the inside. I was 100% calm and easy going throughout the whole adventure. That was kind of nice. :)<br /><br />Eric arrived in Brasil about 13 hours after we did. He was a brave soul as he recounted how he hung out in the Admirals Lounge eating free sushi and drinking free wine and how lovely it was when got upgraded for free to First Class on two of his flights. (He has earned quite the status on American Airlines with all this traveling he's been doing the last year!) Luckily I had taken a nap before he arrived and was able to maintain that earlier calm and restrain myself from strangling him with the strap of one of the two carseats I hauled across a continent by myself with two children.<br /><br />It's been nice to see my hubby and to not be out-numbered by my kids. After moving out of Megan's apartment and to our hotel on Saturday morning, we enjoyed a low key weekend with a couple different friends. It feels good to be here -even if it is unseasonably cool at the moment.<br /><br />And after the great trip down here, I've decided to keep my kids. About Day 10 alone with them back home last week, I was considering selling them to the Gypsies.<br /><br />Oh now, you know I'm only kidding.<br /><br />I might have locked myself in the bathroom for 10 minutes of peace though. Okay, so it was 15 minutes. If it makes you feel better I did pay for it later. Do you know how big of a mess unsupervised children will make in 15 minutes?Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-5687489803567548292011-08-12T09:40:00.009-05:002011-08-17T21:53:08.708-05:00Quick Trip to KC<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiflahImVt-lKXHQMLFLGzbIMevaTY5DwpY-oPHk0keJjnPX5VdFkNpmDpfnEjqIxgm4XCnb6EbcQb3KfgZw3eZ2rV1Hj2MBJpCfwa_Z74frZy2W-uu9WIZQiB8xCbwZ7QSVQx9itMPzfpt/s1600/DSC03466edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5642019121688626130" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiflahImVt-lKXHQMLFLGzbIMevaTY5DwpY-oPHk0keJjnPX5VdFkNpmDpfnEjqIxgm4XCnb6EbcQb3KfgZw3eZ2rV1Hj2MBJpCfwa_Z74frZy2W-uu9WIZQiB8xCbwZ7QSVQx9itMPzfpt/s400/DSC03466edit.jpg" /></a>
<br />The girls and I spent Sunday-Thursday in Kansas City, Kansas with my dad. He was attending a conference over there. We decided that 5 hours is a heck of a lot closer than 14, so we made the journey over to visit with him.
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<br />When Grandpa wasn't in meetings, we go tto hang out and play tourists. We went to the Kansas City Zoo, the Kansas City Children's Museum, the Agricultural Hall of Fame, and Harry Truman's home in Independence, Missouri. The girls and I had a good time with Grandpa (or BaPAAAAAW as Gabriela calls him) for sure!
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<br />Who had more fun in the water room at the Children's Musuem, Gabriela?
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<br /><div>Gabriela is especially enamored with elevators and requires lots of reminding of which buttons are okay to push (the one that takes us to the lobby, for example) and which she cannot (like the emergency call button...again.) After a lengthy conversation about why she can't call the nice operator, <em>again</em>, the Texas cowboy on the elevator looked at us and asked, "so where y'all from?" I smiled and casually responded, "We're from Iowa". At that moment, the elevator stopped and he got off. As the doors shut behind him, I realized what he was really wanting to know was what language I was speaking with my child and why. I suspect I might have left him confused about the geographic location of Iowa. "Well, dang, I coulda sworn that Iowa was a US state..." Oops.
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<br />I made it a point to regularly loudly say things like, "Lilian, you can sit over there next to <em>GRANDPA,</em> and Gabs can sit with me." Dad and I noticed we got lots of looks when we were together...I used to get the same looks back when I was in college and he'd take me to supper anytime he was in Athens for a meeting. Back then I could just call him Dad and straighten out any confusion. Unfortunately, when there are two young children involved, me calling him "Dad" just seems to make people think he is the father of the babies. And that I am a major gold digger. </div>
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<br />Along those lines, I think my Dad got a good reminder of why 50-somethings don't normally have babies. Gabriela's super-human energy wears him out just a little (he seemed more ready for naptime each day than she did! hehe) and Lilian always surprised him with her go-go-gadget-arms that can reach <em>anything</em> she isn't supposed to have. There is no doubt he enjoys his grandbabies...but I do get the feeling that he, like most grandparents, appreciates that he gets to send 'em home when he's done with 'em! :) (Too bad you have to actually raise your own kids before you get to enjoy that benefit...it's just as annoying as that whole having to work 30 years before you're allowed to retire. Why do old folks get to have all the fun?!? hehe)</div>
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<br /><p>We got back to Burlington in time for a friend's 5th Birthday Party (a pool party) yesterday afternoon. After returning home from that last night, more than a little exhausted after 5 days without Papai and a 5+ hour solo journey with the kids, I was harassing Eric about not having the garden picked, flowers watered, yard mowed, or laundry done. I might have gently suggested that had he left me alone with no children for 4 nights I could accomplish all kinds of things...I might have even gone so far as to suggest that he give me the opportunity to prove it. ;) He urged me to go into the storage room in the basement before I said anymore. Which is where I noticed he had changed out the water heater.
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<br />The water heater was on our to-do list as our old one was a little undersized and we recently came across a large high efficiency model on clearance and, with the available tax-credit and energy company rebate, it was only going to cost us $75 out of pocket for the upgrade. It's a natural gas unit and the existing water heater was completely hard-plumbed with copper pipe, so we knew it was going to be a quite time-consuming undertaking. Which it was, I am told. Turns out he didn't just goof off while we were away. I spent the remainder of the night apologizing and thanking Eric for getting it done solo. I plan on some serious relaxing in the jacuzzi tub with a glass of wine this weekend now that we have a water heater capable of filling it up!</p>
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-67461970842896576482011-08-03T17:14:00.007-05:002011-08-04T11:24:39.577-05:00After 29 years, I have a passion!Throughout my life, I've never had a single passionate interest or hobby. I was one in high school that was an active member of pretty much <em>every</em> extra curricular club. I was in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">FFA</span> (formerly Future Farmers of America), <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">FBLA</span> (Future Business Leaders of America), <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">FGE</span> (Future Georgia Educators), Math Team, and 4-H, among others. I showed beef cattle, was in the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Optimist</span> Club's speech competition, and was a cheerleader. You name it, I was genuinely interested in it (so long as it had nothing to do with music - I have no talent at all in that department! The 6<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> grade trombone experiment proved that once and for all.)<br /><br />The broad scope of my interests continued in college, not only in my extra-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">curricular</span>, but also with my major work. Which might have had a little something to do with the six years and countless credit hours...but that's another story we won't take on today (or probably ever).<br /><br />All that has made me, what I consider to be, a pretty darn well-rounded individual. I know a good bit about a lot and have a very unique set of experiences. I've changed the lower element in an electric water heater by myself. I've made my own wedding cake. I've designed and installed a complete landscape. I've sewn my own formal gown. There are a ton of things I enjoy doing and learning about. What my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Renaissance</span> soul has not been useful with, however, is being passionate.<br /><br />I witnessed my older brother, Travis, pick up a guitar in high school and teach himself to be an awesome player; 15 years later, he can still be seen rocking out in establishments around <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">Statesboro</span> with his band, Dirty Uncle Bob. I watched as my middle brother, Justin, built a log cabin all on his own (using only hand tools) with trees he cut down himself and have seen the him make incredibly intricate wooden creations. They both are incredibly passionate about their hobby (which also sort of turned into a major and then career for Justin). I've always been a bit envious of them in that regard. And it's not that I think I'm not good at <em>anything</em>, but I've never been <em>really awesome</em> at any one particular pursuit. I've never been totally focused and consumed with one specific interest.<br /><br />But after 29 years, I have found a passion. Something that I want to learn everything possible about. Something that amazes me, that inspires me, that brings me an immeasurable amount of joy. For the last 18 months, every book I've read has been about pregnancy, birth, or babies. I've attend classes, workshops, online discussions, and community programs about birth.<br /><br />I love being pregnant. I love giving birth. I love newborns. Eric tells me we cannot have 20 babies of our own. He's pretty firm on the no more than a dozen thing. ;)<br /><br />So I've found that the next best thing to having the experience over and over again myself is being involved with other families and witnessing the miracle of a new life entering the world and watching as two people's lives are transformed as they become parents. My work this year as a birth <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">doula</span> has been incredible. And it is nearly impossible to put into words how much I adore what I am doing.<br /><br />My main priority remains my family and our home. As long as we have young kids at home, I will limit the number of clients I take on and how many classes I teach. It's fun to have a hobby I'm truly passionate about though. (And making a little play money with it isn't all bad either.)<br /><br />I have a real business now (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">Mãe</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">Amor</span> Birth Services). And a real website (<a href="http://www.burlingtonbirth.com/">http://www.burlingtonbirth.com/</a>). My <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">doula</span> certification is caught up in a backlog and waiting to go before the review committee. But I did receive my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">HypnoBirthing</span> Practitioner certification last month and will be teaching my first official class beginning in a couple weeks.<br /><br />Business is good. The girls are growing and doing great. Life is truly grand.<br /><br />I'll try to be around here a little more often to tell you all about it!Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-90890811099024133932011-07-26T07:34:00.009-05:002011-07-28T07:50:50.091-05:00The "Vroom Vroom Agua" Works!Remember 8 months or so ago (you know, about the last time I actually published here) when I heckled my husband regarding his newly purchased heck-of-a-steal 13-passenger deck boat that actually functioned as a giant cumbersome canoe? No? Oh here, <a href="http://ericandemilysadventures.blogspot.com/2010/11/boat-lessons-learned.html">refresh your memory</a>...it's priceless.<br /><br />Well, I would be remiss if I didn't break the blog silence to tell you my husband is genius.<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpsDb3Dtl6eEbkukhL0WjlyGTL0dgAr53gSHEchMHq_dZpRkwNM0MiaOQRb9UmR3eq37ZnzYyUB3X7PPn-zJj-gAW6F0AY3sAiyBCLuVoF-HztcbCsmzHoyCxfrJ13EVwBhWfCZVpZqd38/s1600/DSC03414edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5633733220337240306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpsDb3Dtl6eEbkukhL0WjlyGTL0dgAr53gSHEchMHq_dZpRkwNM0MiaOQRb9UmR3eq37ZnzYyUB3X7PPn-zJj-gAW6F0AY3sAiyBCLuVoF-HztcbCsmzHoyCxfrJ13EVwBhWfCZVpZqd38/s400/DSC03414edit.jpg" /></a> <br /><div><br />After a long winter in a friend's shed, moving the boat to our garage late this spring so we could work on it, finally getting one evening to run/diagnose the engine with two friends from work plus his multimeter and infrared thermometer, hypothesizing the problem was a bad resistor, ordering a $20 resistor, finally getting an afternoon to install said resistor, and Eric being the ultimate pessimist as we pulled the boat into the driveway to put it on the muffs and give it a shot...<br /><br />The engine fired right up and ran for over 20 minutes, no problem. (It previously was dying after about 10 minutes.)<br /><br />Always the ever so cautious optimist, I suggested we haul it over to Lake Geode and take it out on the water when the girls woke up from their afternoon nap. (Once and for all proving my unwavering confidence in my husband's mechanical abilities...not to mention his proven capacity to row that sucker back to the dock on his own.)<br /><br />After an hour and a half of zipping around the lake Sunday afternoon, I would like to officially commend my dear hubby on a job well done. Gabriela was over the top excited to drive the "vroom vroom agua" (her name for the boat) and be out on the water. Lilian was happy too, so long as I kept feeding her a steady stream of Cheerios - that kid seriously eats nonstop now!<br /><br />I think it's awesome that for a mere $21.14, the boat, whose previous owner spent hundreds trying to solve the engine issue and ultimately gave up and sold the boat for next to nothing, is fixed. Eric is still complaining that it was ridiculous to pay that much for a resistor and piece of wire which probably cost all of 75 cents to manufacture. Sometimes I have a hard time getting that guy to focus on the big picture.</div><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTE2KWHkg6KEqGgYSqNdaSd9QfdIPvwYu0FQt9sjsBAOE0SaIrbe_qQOUAlD6ei1QttfxUdAJ9FPj6z3O2ka4xVaWWN2SBFWz8kGpHTL6Ey9zavwE3Icnht1vtqe9sLA7_5Qq5iWsiXMND/s1600/DSC03423edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5633733227308078930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTE2KWHkg6KEqGgYSqNdaSd9QfdIPvwYu0FQt9sjsBAOE0SaIrbe_qQOUAlD6ei1QttfxUdAJ9FPj6z3O2ka4xVaWWN2SBFWz8kGpHTL6Ey9zavwE3Icnht1vtqe9sLA7_5Qq5iWsiXMND/s400/DSC03423edit.jpg" /></a>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-66371722598951599992011-01-31T10:57:00.006-06:002011-04-05T16:25:02.972-05:00A Refreshing Breeze?When you live in a tropical climate, you find lots of ways to stay cool in the summer. After living in Belo Horizonte over two years, we thought we had figured out all the various methods for keeping comfortable. Going commando, however, never really crossed our minds. But the older fellow at the outdoor restaurant yesterday afternoon might be onto something. I mean, it is one less layer... <br /><br />So how might one know that the gentleman was not wearing underwear, you ask? Well, I really wish I couldn't answer that. As it is, unfortunately, I can. Imagine if you will: <br /><br />-A man sitting in the usual knees sprawled out fashion that men seem to like to assume. <br /><br />-A rip in the crotch of a pair of pants. <br /><br />-One of his, um, hmmm, well, "boys" hanging out. Way out. <br /><br /><br />One can only assume no undergarments are involved. <br /><br /><br />I shudder a little just recounting the experience. I may be scarred for life. There are just some things no one should ever see. I can assure you that this qualifies. <br /><br />At some point during his meal, he must have felt a little cool breeze where one usually doesn't get a draft. When we left, after I spent the rest of our lunch refusing to look up from my plate, I noticed the poor guy had moved across the table to sit with his back to the rest of the restaurant patrons. And he was now sitting with his legs crossed. <br /><br />Eric thinks the guy, whether he stumbled onto the idea accidentally or not, discovered a fantastic way to stay cool and comfortable. I, for one, am going to have to disagree!Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-88585127780428393802011-01-28T11:45:00.001-06:002011-03-18T12:08:48.210-05:00Brasil Bound!<em>* I'm way behind on things around here. I have a bunch of posts started that I just haven't made time to finish and post. I want to get caught up . . . we'll see if it happens. :) Meanwhile, please forgive me that all my new posts were actually written 6 weeks ago!</em><br /><em></em><br />Night time (and some day time) temperatures are in the single digits (F).<br /><br />Snow boots are required every time I step out to get the mail.<br /><br />My skin most closely resembles the color of Elmer's School Glue.<br /><br />The girls and I are <em>mildly</em> cranky as our Vitamin D stores are quickly depleting.<br /><br />My sleepwear currently consists of oh-so-sexy flannel pajama pants, a long sleeve t-shirt, and socks.<br /><br />Lilian has a passport. And a Brasilian Visa.<br /><br />I have a whole bunch of frequent flyer miles.<br /><br />Eric needs to go down to Brasil for a couple weeks with work. <br /><br />It's warm there. And sunny. <br /><br />There is talk of a giant blizzard heading towards Iowa.<br /><br />Eric recognizes that leaving me behind with two babies in a blizzard while he is in the tropics would be a bad idea. Very bad idea.<br /><br />So tomorrow, we're going to Brasil! YAY! <br /><br />We'll be in Belo Horizonte January 30-February 11 and then tack on a personal trip to Rio de Janeiro for a long weekend with friends there February 11-14. Next year, he's going to have a hard time topping Valentine's Day in Rio. :)Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-57115190320255882732011-01-25T14:16:00.014-06:002011-03-03T17:21:07.163-06:00Lilian 4 Months<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSkuJt2-nCLw-cKdYFR2Xqn0896-z-EiRs453aPPmSz1zO4Vc71aqBocUscpauBHbve3fplnRe_yqIVUpC4kOypgIJSqXdj9vyatjIL3sQAogLbs8aI6mzFSOVsn00Htmr-Z_bgSXn-AlB/s1600/Lilian+4+Months.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579911439527050994" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSkuJt2-nCLw-cKdYFR2Xqn0896-z-EiRs453aPPmSz1zO4Vc71aqBocUscpauBHbve3fplnRe_yqIVUpC4kOypgIJSqXdj9vyatjIL3sQAogLbs8aI6mzFSOVsn00Htmr-Z_bgSXn-AlB/s400/Lilian+4+Months.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKWc5l_qSvdApY7o_NIIGkgbGO8qXucXlPUcfsI7NZ0atyTpJ9EeHSk4vst-xhky1B3QlEqJj2Uqm6QKLD6C5P-BbspXHYg_drzCJ-gHzszQLQLKggo9AQUh9uomO-aYdr6N-0AWoW2NXI/s1600/4+months.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579911440898505474" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKWc5l_qSvdApY7o_NIIGkgbGO8qXucXlPUcfsI7NZ0atyTpJ9EeHSk4vst-xhky1B3QlEqJj2Uqm6QKLD6C5P-BbspXHYg_drzCJ-gHzszQLQLKggo9AQUh9uomO-aYdr6N-0AWoW2NXI/s400/4+months.jpg" /></a><br />Oh My Little LiliBelle,<br /><br />A month of tickles and giggles, beach and family. Long hours in the car and attempting to get you and Gabriela on matching nap schedules. What fun we've had the fourth month of your life!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDJKwmFAF-U-bLiZLfgri9Q3PWuyiOAk_4K09T_B26efG7yy7xi54e-Fw42-FOcNhjFwXj1AstSR-an7lmfI5lJId6e8Nk-p6KqNRIpWozAmZFv_iK-Pii8I8xcEXFbp8GSSmeOqnINPPo/s1600/_DSC0194.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579905961823285170" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDJKwmFAF-U-bLiZLfgri9Q3PWuyiOAk_4K09T_B26efG7yy7xi54e-Fw42-FOcNhjFwXj1AstSR-an7lmfI5lJId6e8Nk-p6KqNRIpWozAmZFv_iK-Pii8I8xcEXFbp8GSSmeOqnINPPo/s400/_DSC0194.JPG" /></a><br />After spending the better part of your existence crying every time your big sister bumps you, you've finally come around are just beginning to think that maybe she isn't so bad. You still have your moments, but for the most part the drama is subsiding. And that's sort of nice. Not that you haven't been a good baby...you're actually incredibly laid back and totally chill most of the time. But up until now you have been a little on the prissy side about the trying-to-be-careful-but-actually-sort-of rough treatment received from Gabs.<br /><br /></div><div><div><div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPimPGaS1OfBeXbjq2D4zgX2iDO_FFc4VVQ3O63Cr0WQg1V2-UxmUp_lep0ZwhrZdyN-5I5zPU05i7p8n6GD86jOVipGOOCCYlx9y9ptllUtnQQ49u-3vX7Z7woX8n1xTrJ4tKar86jSBf/s1600/_DSC0319edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579909728955009730" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPimPGaS1OfBeXbjq2D4zgX2iDO_FFc4VVQ3O63Cr0WQg1V2-UxmUp_lep0ZwhrZdyN-5I5zPU05i7p8n6GD86jOVipGOOCCYlx9y9ptllUtnQQ49u-3vX7Z7woX8n1xTrJ4tKar86jSBf/s400/_DSC0319edit.jpg" /></a>This month has brought with it the beginning of the bumbo seat. While you do seem to tire quickly sitting up and holding that noggin' upright, you much prefer to sit up and look around over reclining. The bouncy seat is seeing a lot less time now as the bumbo moves into the picture. You are also just starting to put weight on your legs and will try to push yourself into a standing position when you're in our lap. Along with that strength is the beginning of some mobility. Today, on your 4-month birthday, you rolled over for the first time (intentionally). And you seem most impressed with your new trick as you have rolled from belly to back multiple times and have even rolled from back to belly once today as well!</div><div><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhBKjg23B4IyRe6S6Ao38bxTmkRTsNq0KVAgRlPcmaLBKD9VuBxm90hpU1ikkU9EPIPAKsktzkjlQ9b2K9Tk-5_bLXSMmCduzzmLmByOJ4v3tevVq0dZi86fWev_iQf9W_Z6j_eyszcNoB/s1600/_DSC0323edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579909719459193474" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhBKjg23B4IyRe6S6Ao38bxTmkRTsNq0KVAgRlPcmaLBKD9VuBxm90hpU1ikkU9EPIPAKsktzkjlQ9b2K9Tk-5_bLXSMmCduzzmLmByOJ4v3tevVq0dZi86fWev_iQf9W_Z6j_eyszcNoB/s400/_DSC0323edit.jpg" /></a> Your nighttime sleep has been great as you sleep from 8:00 pm until 10:00 am waking just once between 6:00 and 8:00 am to nurse. Just in the last week you've been able to stretch your daytime feedings to 4 hours apart too. I've started to make a real effort to get you napping predictably. I am trying to put you down 2 hours after you wake up in the morning and then again around 4:00 in the afternoon. We're not fully transitioned yet, as you rarely sleep more than an hour at those times and still cat nap a couple other times during the day...but we'll keep at it and get there eventually!</div><div><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAd6c44KaKz8ZwMKa9i-Hlc0py04A2M8AREpfIp_M_iFZ4dnh0nFNMYHc5rl_ayWuEiprPqgZ35GPFbteOXkuI4FpFpdPb75mZv6cr50dN6jhiMxdFNykyYWm3lTVz8pxlL6FPSmGdH3og/s1600/DSC01795edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579909713190491586" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAd6c44KaKz8ZwMKa9i-Hlc0py04A2M8AREpfIp_M_iFZ4dnh0nFNMYHc5rl_ayWuEiprPqgZ35GPFbteOXkuI4FpFpdPb75mZv6cr50dN6jhiMxdFNykyYWm3lTVz8pxlL6FPSmGdH3og/s400/DSC01795edit.jpg" /></a> Your hair seems to lighten more and more each day, and your eyes are continuously messing with me. One day I am certain you're going to end up with brown eyes and then the next day they look bluish-gray and sometimes they even seem to have a greenish hue! I've decided to hold off on all guesses as to what your final eye color will be...we'll just wait until you're 9 months old and see what happens! :) Whatever color they are, they are big and bright and beautiful!</div><div><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuESeYE3UDWeBEabfv7b-KgBy7gB-kCIY0ecrWrMBE0GW8ywDL1tZ1iuirKlWzu3LCH7gUSqmJCQOvCUl9rL0Zsbk3ERA04edAOO6KkAvG6gg42M2am5UdOAyT5EspbnQM3sv2DekVmwLv/s1600/DSC01644.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579985133587016898" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuESeYE3UDWeBEabfv7b-KgBy7gB-kCIY0ecrWrMBE0GW8ywDL1tZ1iuirKlWzu3LCH7gUSqmJCQOvCUl9rL0Zsbk3ERA04edAOO6KkAvG6gg42M2am5UdOAyT5EspbnQM3sv2DekVmwLv/s400/DSC01644.JPG" /></a> Your car seat has remained a happy place for you - and that's a good thing! After logging more than 50 hours in the car over the holidays, and a trip to Brasil happening in a few days, we are extremely thankful for another good rider!<br /><br /></div><div></div><div></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsVy9Uhbd4kcROxQ-un2N3qrirbgWXvvGPhiDQoODemQWI2VDu4zSLldYBdTBbxG6gpTx36_oQE-qumdI8FytUkeJ3_ZC0TQAbiqXJmp1e_5a27J5AOj6YxcWWwUAcmuaa80TWkZX6yhH3/s1600/DSC01736edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579986431815870466" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsVy9Uhbd4kcROxQ-un2N3qrirbgWXvvGPhiDQoODemQWI2VDu4zSLldYBdTBbxG6gpTx36_oQE-qumdI8FytUkeJ3_ZC0TQAbiqXJmp1e_5a27J5AOj6YxcWWwUAcmuaa80TWkZX6yhH3/s400/DSC01736edit.jpg" /></a><br />You have gotten quite ticklish on your thighs and neck and squirm and giggle with delight when we tickle you. You love to be read to and we laugh that the best way to make you happy is to make you the center of attention. Anytime you get a little fussy, all it takes is someone looking your direction and speaking to you and you immediately light up and smile and coo.<br /><br /></div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKIEggodBNJ3Q2BpFPZfxHIJ8u8guxsf8ys4W7KC6MK8nWWA2cvciGPP7fmBlBVP_g1-E45TB3sxvnO-xx3hWa9etsORENCIToDXsbGe_MFi8z10f2B0uJySAK8sspeG_3ruJJ4NSwikmo/s1600/DSC01684edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579985130243222162" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKIEggodBNJ3Q2BpFPZfxHIJ8u8guxsf8ys4W7KC6MK8nWWA2cvciGPP7fmBlBVP_g1-E45TB3sxvnO-xx3hWa9etsORENCIToDXsbGe_MFi8z10f2B0uJySAK8sspeG_3ruJJ4NSwikmo/s400/DSC01684edit.jpg" /></a><br />Your 4-month well-child visit is going to be just before you turn 5 months old, so I don't have official stats. According to my at-home measurements though, you're 24.75 inches long (50th percentile) and 12.2 pounds (15th percentile). You wear 3-6 month clothes (most of the 3 month stuff is short on you now) and, when you use disposable diapers, you're in Pampers size 1-2.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgd5UX2hw2sPQ33yTVTFUHrLz5p2v30gOrwgUAtV5xR2c2d17QUKZkeGvPSBlxKBazaaWhyckSTLVLxaTGkzpWuUXvKK0BCkAlrtepr0T9qkv5IJGhLVO7O21wCa0NXWMhJYtaGbbxv38Ro/s1600/DSC01745edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579911127572708466" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgd5UX2hw2sPQ33yTVTFUHrLz5p2v30gOrwgUAtV5xR2c2d17QUKZkeGvPSBlxKBazaaWhyckSTLVLxaTGkzpWuUXvKK0BCkAlrtepr0T9qkv5IJGhLVO7O21wCa0NXWMhJYtaGbbxv38Ro/s400/DSC01745edit.jpg" /></a></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><br /><br />Our days have more giggles and smiles because of you! We love you very, very much!<br /><br />Eu te amo, princesinha!<br />Mamãe<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgz9MU63TtrUA_qL9uvVYxfuq_SP8pDR3pa1w7a1_YwJftQADxKhP8__E-iJJKyTUTpuHRbT9flJTlXuHeylMkxsdrAw8Gq3MYGu2J8hPvDnlkPl2F8tckhiY18MqyUtY1huAAi4FY6Ov46/s1600/_DSC0183.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579906633362375426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgz9MU63TtrUA_qL9uvVYxfuq_SP8pDR3pa1w7a1_YwJftQADxKhP8__E-iJJKyTUTpuHRbT9flJTlXuHeylMkxsdrAw8Gq3MYGu2J8hPvDnlkPl2F8tckhiY18MqyUtY1huAAi4FY6Ov46/s400/_DSC0183.JPG" /></a>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-16287520734418441392011-01-22T14:23:00.003-06:002011-03-02T16:54:35.485-06:00Mama's Little Bargain ShopperI'm sort of a fan of shopping. And an even bigger fan of snagging good deals. There are a few consignment shops that I like a lot - especially when you're looking for little kid clothes. They outgrow everything so fast that I can often find things that either still have the new tags on them or that appear to have only been worn a couple of times. Consignment shops are also my favorite place to buy "play clothes", since, if I only pay 75 cents for a shirt, I really don't care what Gabriela spills on it or how dirty she gets!<br /><br />I think that a lot of times consignment shops are over-priced for my kind of shopping. When I can buy new at Kohl's or Younkers for 60-90% off, then I refuse to pay more than that for used. But, when a consignment shop has a sale...oh boy, the deals can be fantastic!<br /><br /><em>Stuff Etc.</em> in Coralville, Iowa had their annual 1/2-off sale, so I had to hit it up! I came away with quite a bit for the girls (mostly Gabriela):<br /><br />10 shirts<br />3 pairs of pants<br />6 dresses<br />3 medium-lightweight jackets<br />2 heavy winter coats (one for each girl for next year)<br />1 pink peacoat<br /><br />The grand total of all 25 pieces was just $58.51!<br /><br />The store was packed, and I thought it might be easiest to shop without "company". So I sent Eric and the girls down the road to a home and farm store (you can imagine how much Eric protested) while I hit up the sales.<br /><br />Once we got home, Gabs was pretty excited to unload the goodies!<br /><br /><div><embed height="290" name="FLVPlayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" width="327" src="http://www.onetruemedia.com/share_view_player?p=" flashvars="&p=d81274036a9b3a56963b2e&skin_id=1010&host=http://www.onetruemedia.com" salign="LT" wmode="transparent" scale="noscale" quality="high"></embed> <div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; PADDING-BOTTOM: 15px; MARGIN: 0px; WIDTH: 327px; FONT: 12px/20px verdana, arial, sans-serif"><a style="TEXT-DECORATION: none" href="http://www.onetruemedia.com/landing?&utm_source=emplay&utm_medium=txt2" target="_blank">Photo and video editing at <span style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">www.OneTrueMedia.com</span></a></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-2087409740897144692011-01-21T14:19:00.008-06:002011-02-09T05:14:16.060-06:00Gabriela 21 Months<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Uc-GHDhGWdCbo-L8aqoakbRgOozqhC1Zec16GJiAid6dsVH_fu1JahyphenhyphenIIynKrOLONkL7IipZmaKB04K_qKViJXn4cOK7nfU6xQxVd9KJZFQJYdGK6Sk2bfl69ZeZx_NjWI_V_mvuIPSh/s1600/21.8.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570998314703682962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Uc-GHDhGWdCbo-L8aqoakbRgOozqhC1Zec16GJiAid6dsVH_fu1JahyphenhyphenIIynKrOLONkL7IipZmaKB04K_qKViJXn4cOK7nfU6xQxVd9KJZFQJYdGK6Sk2bfl69ZeZx_NjWI_V_mvuIPSh/s400/21.8.JPG" /></a> Dear Gabriela,<br /><br />Seriously kid, the cuteness is killing me. As is the toddler orneriness! The last three months have been a bit of a blur as we settled into a routine with Lilian part of our days too now. We've managed to, well, manage and have gotten quite comfortable as a little family of four. And you, our little entertainer, kisser, and get-into-everything-er, have kept us on our toes and made the days an awful lot of fun!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFHiuwQdwDWaBLH4ARi9EulMYLR9gyQftTqbUF6M4XBqY0iABfx4tpppwdUJiB6rnBOdSLxvh-0sAzaNEe_Kx1ulERmr2Bgt85S3aigiQzC3lVYBma3hhHrpUbSzV8n6vHBrrQw9rOw8_B/s1600/21.11.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570997018338201682" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFHiuwQdwDWaBLH4ARi9EulMYLR9gyQftTqbUF6M4XBqY0iABfx4tpppwdUJiB6rnBOdSLxvh-0sAzaNEe_Kx1ulERmr2Bgt85S3aigiQzC3lVYBma3hhHrpUbSzV8n6vHBrrQw9rOw8_B/s400/21.11.JPG" /></a>You are a smart cookie. And I have yet to decide if that is a blessing or a curse. You observe everything - very closely. And you learn way too fast for our liking sometimes! You are constantly trying to figure out how things work and if you watch someone do something once, you remember it and we'll find you doing it yourself some time later. Whether it's plugging my camera into the USB port on the computer, starting the DVD player, operating my breast pump, using power tools (thankfully they were unplugged at the time!), pulling out the child safety covers and plugging things into outlets (we're hoping you don't combine that with the power tools thing before we catch you...), or running on the blender, there isn't much that gets past you. It's a bit difficult to let you out of our sight for very long. Not because you're a troublemaker, it's just that you're too inquisitive for your own safety right now!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2-KexP7QhJHnrrj7mY7I1r8I8oeNnO7BFIew1eZk7WYNNWoQPNR5ApSmAjRYdIyXNBfxIQvxO9hFAt8rWXMKTbuTpRKjZzv-ftZATl7gZjHWdX6GxQE5OLgftOOa6CZDp9gKey62NvnKo/s1600/21.10.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570997005991896738" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2-KexP7QhJHnrrj7mY7I1r8I8oeNnO7BFIew1eZk7WYNNWoQPNR5ApSmAjRYdIyXNBfxIQvxO9hFAt8rWXMKTbuTpRKjZzv-ftZATl7gZjHWdX6GxQE5OLgftOOa6CZDp9gKey62NvnKo/s400/21.10.JPG" /></a> You continue to be my big helper and love your baby sister to no end. The very first words out of your mouth each morning and after your naps are still, "nenê, nenê" as you take off through the house looking for Lilian. Anytime someone smiles or speaks to you when we're out, the first thing you do is point at you sister and say, "nenê, nenê" to make sure they acknowledge her too. If she cries you find her pacifier and bring it to her. You constantly share your toys with her and quite often attempt to offer her your snacks and drinks (no matter how many times I remind you she can't have real people food yet!) Anything I need for the baby - burp rag, clean diaper, wipes, clothes, bottle, pacifier, ANYTHING - you will find and bring to me, often even before I ask! And lately, anytime we remove her diaper or undress her, you insist that I take Lilian potty. You love it when she goes and often applaud her efforts. You are so proud of Lilian and never display even the slightest bit of jealousy.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFdPmw_NkN7w0ENz8ul7cXT4F9-jv-Wk4JTyLcPkWYfajI8cEft1XmIOxtsDbm18s-nt53EcXyM7QwhsSh1eajs6VVQXKIAN81JW73dnBJhIL8_zPXv2JomG3RamSgfYF4CA0C5jg8C-eU/s1600/21.9.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570996996517469986" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFdPmw_NkN7w0ENz8ul7cXT4F9-jv-Wk4JTyLcPkWYfajI8cEft1XmIOxtsDbm18s-nt53EcXyM7QwhsSh1eajs6VVQXKIAN81JW73dnBJhIL8_zPXv2JomG3RamSgfYF4CA0C5jg8C-eU/s400/21.9.JPG" /></a>The toddler finickiness with food continues. About the only thing I can count on you consuming consistently each day is milk. You love, love, love your milk and ask for it constantly throughout the day. I limit you to 30 ounces, but I'm pretty sure you'd drink a half gallon a day if I let you! Water is the other thing that gets you ridiculously excited. You'll yell out "água, água, água" repeatedly until someone acknowledges your request. Then as you're handed your drink, you get a huge grin on your face and say contentedly, "Aaaaaaahguaaaaa". You eat tons of different foods; I just never can guess what you're going to like on any given day. Or how much. Sometimes you eat like a pro football player. Other days I swear the only calories you're consuming are from your milk. I figure it's pretty much the status quo for your age though, so we never get too concerned on the food-front.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKXx8WVsaB5a5i5gBFthEDLo8tnIZ2YdEK2tcZ69UllglNmpJulSsJylH5rXJoWO_TzFxEDQbTmZszTMstfs96OGlxWgfloB8Asd-yAvPgPdtBNYm2rKQtjQLoll9S3d3k6ZfqDl-OuRVU/s1600/21.7.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570996990759756386" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKXx8WVsaB5a5i5gBFthEDLo8tnIZ2YdEK2tcZ69UllglNmpJulSsJylH5rXJoWO_TzFxEDQbTmZszTMstfs96OGlxWgfloB8Asd-yAvPgPdtBNYm2rKQtjQLoll9S3d3k6ZfqDl-OuRVU/s400/21.7.JPG" /></a><br />I should mention that you got your first taste of sweets over the holidays. You had a sucker at Halloween which was your first piece of candy. But at Christmas your Momo, with whom you decided you should stay close to at all times, was regularly handing you cookies and chocolates. We caught her most of the time, but you did sneak off with some of the good stuff without us noticing. (And we might not have known if it weren't for the crumbs on your shirt or chocolate on your face.) You also asked for ice cream for the first time while we were in Florida - so we gave you a few bites of ours and, as expected, you loved it! Some things you just don't like sweet though. I gave you some of my sweetened vanilla yogurt with your Grape-Nuts since I was all out of your plain stuff the other day - you hated it and handed me the bowl right back with a disgusted look on your face!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkpU6ODwjm3Kb-tUUJp8tmTKUgN79YJ5NhZKv2QqZHH5HU5qFNTQ2yxNMRFyGxd_ANu2RCAyZdCVeXD84XO2eR1YBiJUb_PrB7KDwRRJwB_MFX0oGwDL4YzY0Ypbl0uZKefRuhDMee6c-8/s1600/21.6.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570996983472545074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkpU6ODwjm3Kb-tUUJp8tmTKUgN79YJ5NhZKv2QqZHH5HU5qFNTQ2yxNMRFyGxd_ANu2RCAyZdCVeXD84XO2eR1YBiJUb_PrB7KDwRRJwB_MFX0oGwDL4YzY0Ypbl0uZKefRuhDMee6c-8/s400/21.6.JPG" /></a><br />On the vocabulary-front, you've added "I love you" to your sign repertoire. Your new words the last three months have included, <strong><em>água</em></strong> (water), <strong><em>uh-oh </em></strong>(which you picked up from your cousin Hannah and quickly became a favorite), <strong><em>ah-gee </em></strong>(for <em>ajuda/</em>help), <strong><em>Papa </em></strong>(which you have used for both Grandpa and Papa)<strong><em>, </em></strong>and <strong><em>Pa-pai </em></strong>(always whispered, unlike <strong><em>Ma-Ma</em></strong> which is always yelled). You are jabbering all the time now and try to repeat things we ask you to try saying. Most of what you say seems pretty random and unintelligible to us still. You do have about three different sentences you use quite regularly though - I just have no idea what they mean! They're rather long phrases and you say them the exact same way each time and with a lot of conviction, so I know you're trying to purposely communicate. Besides Portuguese, which you understand pretty much 100% of what we tell you/ask you to do, you're understanding a lot more English now after spending so much time with family over the holidays. It's a lot of fun to watch your language develop!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg20OcqiuH6yVXkPOfn962RTu734mWC_cC2KZZ5_31RJ_V9oon-9i-jJlyYXRJas51WPeV8zwxHRziICSBfereobiH87l6m0lnODXyL2O0vrLO45V48EdlruY8TWatLDCBIYCkKj0jmqHSZ/s1600/21.5.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570995848330955922" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg20OcqiuH6yVXkPOfn962RTu734mWC_cC2KZZ5_31RJ_V9oon-9i-jJlyYXRJas51WPeV8zwxHRziICSBfereobiH87l6m0lnODXyL2O0vrLO45V48EdlruY8TWatLDCBIYCkKj0jmqHSZ/s400/21.5.JPG" /></a><br />It has been fun watching you play with other kids. Unlike most toddlers your age who seem to want to parallel play, you always at least try to play with the other kids first. You love to give toys to others, but you're a little confused when they don't give you something in exchange or hand back whatever you just gave them. Your sharing isn't exactly self-less at this stage! :) You had a total blast playing with your cousins in Florida and spent hours playing 'beauty shop' with Hannah. Your newest obsession at home now is playing dress-up. You spend much of your day in other people's shoes, putting on hats, and coming up with interesting outfits (like the day I got you up from your nap and found you shirtless but still wearing your jeans...along with a swimsuit cover-up skirt.)<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJQmRm7I5wD8MTMoIY-xcmRbN58dv4ptqtj89Zg_yP53YE67n65pnk8zbIeGqXnyvIiTggBQqdcAXLnYaK7Ps_ELnnRVIkrCP8bZijzDiJ0qWJ21_EKGeS2Ov4_4XvX8G3qwK1xypPDrn7/s1600/21.4.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570995843599872658" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJQmRm7I5wD8MTMoIY-xcmRbN58dv4ptqtj89Zg_yP53YE67n65pnk8zbIeGqXnyvIiTggBQqdcAXLnYaK7Ps_ELnnRVIkrCP8bZijzDiJ0qWJ21_EKGeS2Ov4_4XvX8G3qwK1xypPDrn7/s400/21.4.JPG" /></a><br />You are active, active, active and people are always commenting on how you never seem to wear-out. You go pretty much nonstop except for when we put you down for your naps (still 2 a day, each about 1 1/2 hours) and for bed at night. You love music and dancing and have recently started to put your head on the floor and flip yourself over. I'm thinking dance or gymnastics classes are in your very near future!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQNjQi1-HrHnyx5V6pcFrqfHHvXo_ojcw-xHKL8pF8112mMNyMiU8GF_lA7A2oUiyQjaxto7v2WjpS7LhtQiDVg6h8DMUhTluAAhVmE5VQWHnZw0NDM0LyEZnD9r9B4bxg2636cz8_XWUY/s1600/21.3.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570995841978369154" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQNjQi1-HrHnyx5V6pcFrqfHHvXo_ojcw-xHKL8pF8112mMNyMiU8GF_lA7A2oUiyQjaxto7v2WjpS7LhtQiDVg6h8DMUhTluAAhVmE5VQWHnZw0NDM0LyEZnD9r9B4bxg2636cz8_XWUY/s400/21.3.JPG" /></a><br />You keep getting taller and taller, but aren't putting on a lot of pounds. You are 33.5 inches tall now (75th percentile) and 23 pounds (15th percentile). 24 month/2T clothes fit you best (although usually a bit large in the waist) and you wear a size 5 shoe.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4yxYcY8KRsIhjTuJZt0iEPzA3eJsyfJBxYqHJwFUfvPZB3xZzkl_esFq6xi2HD43MkQdQRUkST1neZkuxOQdvmYiS3Rj9TnfmwW2xp1VkYnGj5n_gbJR7-iMDU1niK0IWKAFKbX7AqrOj/s1600/21.2.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570995831354962914" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4yxYcY8KRsIhjTuJZt0iEPzA3eJsyfJBxYqHJwFUfvPZB3xZzkl_esFq6xi2HD43MkQdQRUkST1neZkuxOQdvmYiS3Rj9TnfmwW2xp1VkYnGj5n_gbJR7-iMDU1niK0IWKAFKbX7AqrOj/s400/21.2.JPG" /></a> As you near the 2-year mark, you are definitely getting a little stronger-willed and a bit sneaky, but you generally mind pretty well. I am still waiting for your first official melt-down or tantrum...as I'm sure it's eminent! You tend to ask for help long before you ever get frustrated, which is a nice trait (although one I'm sure you didn't get from me.) 95% of the day you are happy and smiling and just a ton of fun. And even in the 5% when you get pouty or randomly cry for seemingly no reason, you're still pitifully cute!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgIaZ0i6AJhKZWSrxUKr4CjBNm7Dv6BkgiLUsByCnV8W6asY6q6T8AX96K4IihXEo1F_MHwna_QvgjheK7hBAIHl-bXBjbBmnYeF209KrwESe9yC0-aY1MuxPePeT1WYrbB3GpzfegO3mI/s1600/21.1.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570995828758809298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgIaZ0i6AJhKZWSrxUKr4CjBNm7Dv6BkgiLUsByCnV8W6asY6q6T8AX96K4IihXEo1F_MHwna_QvgjheK7hBAIHl-bXBjbBmnYeF209KrwESe9yC0-aY1MuxPePeT1WYrbB3GpzfegO3mI/s400/21.1.JPG" /></a> Eu te amo, minha filha!</div><div>Mamãe</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-28479109057013741332011-01-06T10:08:00.001-06:002011-02-03T15:34:47.588-06:00Ending 2010 and Beginning 2011 in FloridaA little pictorial story of our time in Tequesta, Florida with Eric's sister, Tanya, Brian, and their 4 kids:<br /><br /><br /><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMcs0Balm2wUW0UgmDfjOGLnGHCjEB8ry45wuj02yZ2qA6QvmhZMSZnLS5ly7Oi43HBWb4J7Lyora7pS9OPILFvDgF1HFu_K5OxlmavScpbg0ZWYhyQ5hHDQ1BOMd2ucIt99V6-_4ac_OZ/s1600/Florida7.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569503317809224162" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMcs0Balm2wUW0UgmDfjOGLnGHCjEB8ry45wuj02yZ2qA6QvmhZMSZnLS5ly7Oi43HBWb4J7Lyora7pS9OPILFvDgF1HFu_K5OxlmavScpbg0ZWYhyQ5hHDQ1BOMd2ucIt99V6-_4ac_OZ/s400/Florida7.JPG" /></a> We weren't exactly expecting to need our winter coats our first night out in South Florida...but we sure are glad we brought them! (And no that's not some weirdly worn shawl I have on...Lilian was enjoying her toasty ride in the Baby K'Tan Baby Carrier!)<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyfOEkQNf2vjed-1XLEtrRTLfv7st3huNBFlxPcefuyp1z6bRMkzaPYf_0sN5mlEiPXkz0ZPxpIMlO_2N2ZjEbW2Hka1iN4pvdSLjS1jlDpOAmyZRnWdFRruISy82l7isg0D7uL7gcldw-/s1600/Florida1.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569499787473027698" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyfOEkQNf2vjed-1XLEtrRTLfv7st3huNBFlxPcefuyp1z6bRMkzaPYf_0sN5mlEiPXkz0ZPxpIMlO_2N2ZjEbW2Hka1iN4pvdSLjS1jlDpOAmyZRnWdFRruISy82l7isg0D7uL7gcldw-/s400/Florida1.JPG" /></a> 6-year old Madison had a 2 1/2' tall shadow throughout our visit - Gabriela loved tagging behind her. Madison seemed to equally enjoy the opportunity to be the "babysitter". I love this picture taken through the tank during our visit to an aquarium.</div><div align="center"><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_7B_-f8eQ-QP9Wb-IIIzVDCXJAe8DblHz1t8gXz5NReS-SMw_NIOCCgChNJgcnsLZwunX7kOO-DWCgz6PCRwQvgmeA3RP5goanwKy5OrfS7oR65kOlaZyBG9HjgAoMiQT_Jgdtp8ol04/s1600/PC270062.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569505974535926818" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_7B_-f8eQ-QP9Wb-IIIzVDCXJAe8DblHz1t8gXz5NReS-SMw_NIOCCgChNJgcnsLZwunX7kOO-DWCgz6PCRwQvgmeA3RP5goanwKy5OrfS7oR65kOlaZyBG9HjgAoMiQT_Jgdtp8ol04/s400/PC270062.JPG" /></a>We weren't sure if Gabriela would be interested in the "touch tank" creatures or not. She jumped right up there and wanted to hold everything though. Including this sea urchin!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKHOeqaYzu5t9rucBRL7xQb8oT24zQ1r36XvR5WEazuLEeGtqEMs3N-vZAG3kRocws48C6DXiYO9yQTd32GbwczPcmDnnEw_XQ2OitHxkjgwiZfv9cB10vMtGxYDSUl-ObKmeL2voY8f9H/s1600/Florida8.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569503341665354306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKHOeqaYzu5t9rucBRL7xQb8oT24zQ1r36XvR5WEazuLEeGtqEMs3N-vZAG3kRocws48C6DXiYO9yQTd32GbwczPcmDnnEw_XQ2OitHxkjgwiZfv9cB10vMtGxYDSUl-ObKmeL2voY8f9H/s400/Florida8.JPG" /></a> Brian is Eric's brother-in-law. Bob and Brian have been buds a long time. Brian started dating Eric's sister in high school. So Eric and Bob met and became friends in high school. (I think I have those details right...) Brian and Bob now live just blocks apart in Florida. While visiting, we wanted to catch up with Bob and his wife, Dawn (who is expecting their first baby soon.) While standing around chatting, Bob and Eric realized they were both holding babies. They were all like, "How weird is this?!?" Reminder #362 that we're closer to 40 than 18! YIKES!</div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8UOulXzb6UyK2lplmQq_zIhQmZjYVDrTIhgUPcsB8LIhanF-67JOm-pnFLuM8kj4nARb5sCggIS1dEJm97_YzmYsksd6HS_y07fKKZHQo1KTyZ6z6HGwBx5K18DjBf7z3uNJBgPC5Yrak/s1600/DSC01658edit.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569499792953948754" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8UOulXzb6UyK2lplmQq_zIhQmZjYVDrTIhgUPcsB8LIhanF-67JOm-pnFLuM8kj4nARb5sCggIS1dEJm97_YzmYsksd6HS_y07fKKZHQo1KTyZ6z6HGwBx5K18DjBf7z3uNJBgPC5Yrak/s400/DSC01658edit.JPG" /></a> Brian was working part of the time we were visiting, but he did get one full day to goof off with us. The 10 of us started off by hopping a boat over to Peanut Island, where JFK had an underground bomb bunker! </div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXOc7n-gg9GL8QnsDhs-TZsFmP8UNUwmzVyytQ7WrLXjHWVFWj6pcYJUy3axNERe6ezwClp082lKB5KJfUhECqAt1s5LpveLrZbJ9xgR3Hh_h3uH8RoqKN-90ZiGs4-oGQT_phyphenhyphenLSaURJ0/s1600/PC290081.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569505969010450530" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXOc7n-gg9GL8QnsDhs-TZsFmP8UNUwmzVyytQ7WrLXjHWVFWj6pcYJUy3axNERe6ezwClp082lKB5KJfUhECqAt1s5LpveLrZbJ9xgR3Hh_h3uH8RoqKN-90ZiGs4-oGQT_phyphenhyphenLSaURJ0/s400/PC290081.JPG" /></a>The girls enjoyed the quick boat ride!<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV7ymQi7CwR6nGUbEqtte58MhyNRciuF-zsHbVd-NWNGPAzO1mgBTM7eyDUYHNWXgfcYzNFRMEMQL3YxPgufset3k3GoDsdNkzh_pgyqdikCk2ZSmxR8mKOyHYFYsNyVNlmQHhQ5EeBiRe/s1600/Florida2.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569499802809368082" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgV7ymQi7CwR6nGUbEqtte58MhyNRciuF-zsHbVd-NWNGPAzO1mgBTM7eyDUYHNWXgfcYzNFRMEMQL3YxPgufset3k3GoDsdNkzh_pgyqdikCk2ZSmxR8mKOyHYFYsNyVNlmQHhQ5EeBiRe/s400/Florida2.JPG" /></a> We hiked around the island and wished it was warmer. There were lots of great snorkeling spots and pretty beaches! We also saw a whole bunch of manatees and fish!<br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBOKH12rr-nT_Qdt42jdH1to8MvO731S46gXL9fMPk8oHvH0sjB4JE0cfj-Btzvc9Rx-fjW-iNqifPIJGwkv_m3qS00-Bmqax6cDTFfgLIHfFsfVrMEzSnSGnJzDMU2_nZfq4SxcaELd3j/s1600/PC290083.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569505979086388882" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBOKH12rr-nT_Qdt42jdH1to8MvO731S46gXL9fMPk8oHvH0sjB4JE0cfj-Btzvc9Rx-fjW-iNqifPIJGwkv_m3qS00-Bmqax6cDTFfgLIHfFsfVrMEzSnSGnJzDMU2_nZfq4SxcaELd3j/s400/PC290083.JPG" /></a> After our hike we drive down to West Palm Beach and checked out the downtown area. We ate at an awesome pizza place with giant slices and great prices. I really only show this picture to illustrate how giant the slices were (for reference, that is a 6" sub on the far left side of the picture). And to mention that Gabriela ate MY ENTIRE SLICE!</div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGDMygKksKJmvPCFJ90frwDHquWz9XiAfRVOnpVWexC3NaRhcDdnBdsCaY-uNWBjol95F3uM8eNvspGLKDFsSnCYsMkpsos-gHAmdvhdvTDrx8IXp24ndau90IjSQcA1G9mtjWYn3jt8vp/s1600/Florida3.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569499805955674178" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGDMygKksKJmvPCFJ90frwDHquWz9XiAfRVOnpVWexC3NaRhcDdnBdsCaY-uNWBjol95F3uM8eNvspGLKDFsSnCYsMkpsos-gHAmdvhdvTDrx8IXp24ndau90IjSQcA1G9mtjWYn3jt8vp/s400/Florida3.JPG" /></a>Later that night we found a playground where the kids played a long time before climbing this bent palm tree.<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPAa9JPXRGltG35VVFBx_Focbv_ENEP6DdqPnN91IDvDk_v4HifkuI92KmM6XRQ_IepC34Kvyrx5BrVSjrT5kr4vhjiee_C079bvYzTutJzs7NnWVc0CjUEKp7Cs0lYBNodBBHU6Db6G1h/s1600/Florida4.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569499815953409554" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPAa9JPXRGltG35VVFBx_Focbv_ENEP6DdqPnN91IDvDk_v4HifkuI92KmM6XRQ_IepC34Kvyrx5BrVSjrT5kr4vhjiee_C079bvYzTutJzs7NnWVc0CjUEKp7Cs0lYBNodBBHU6Db6G1h/s400/Florida4.JPG" /></a> We were invited to attend an awesome New Year's Eve Party thrown by a very generous couple from their church. Pony rides, a petting zoo, giant inflatables, magician/balloon artist, a special buffet, and on-site <em>babysitting</em> for the kids. Lobster and ribeye buffet, valet parking, open bar, and live band for the adults. All set at their incredible castle of a home and outside around their resort-like pool. <em>Completely beautiful place</em>. Incredibly warm and generous family! It was more impressive than lots of houses featured on MTV's cribs. Seriously. We were tempted to walk around and take a million pictures, but we figured that would probably qualify as tacky. So instead we just focused on enjoying the evening...and keeping our jaws off the ground.</div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDSOiRzNsJWc5k3zukQpjLhHRnxP5Za9NsKd0fqs6TfESsBKfsZjxk8jXMAB3WoEKFIVgWGK50VsIHzARyh11DILNsvEt7KSYAwhE5FamyuDCpueGZxambqFNC7r3k9U-TDYBUnmSbJpH_/s1600/Florida6.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569503290258280834" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDSOiRzNsJWc5k3zukQpjLhHRnxP5Za9NsKd0fqs6TfESsBKfsZjxk8jXMAB3WoEKFIVgWGK50VsIHzARyh11DILNsvEt7KSYAwhE5FamyuDCpueGZxambqFNC7r3k9U-TDYBUnmSbJpH_/s400/Florida6.JPG" /></a> All the kiddos joined us for a few songs after midnight. I had the pleasure of dancing with both Kaylee (pictured) and Madison before calling it a night!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBJiDH1BHTt4I74JBXyo8cpaWVlZCUxyZ7pGcgAA_J8gxaiY3QlGlFUDo4uXWVhXrxgSiEane10LldK4JC-DUFxY1lHIVZWxOmZ_T10-It8a09isEBf2_ffRNgIjo7E13CrM4WBM7RTRnb/s1600/Florida5.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569503260621138242" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBJiDH1BHTt4I74JBXyo8cpaWVlZCUxyZ7pGcgAA_J8gxaiY3QlGlFUDo4uXWVhXrxgSiEane10LldK4JC-DUFxY1lHIVZWxOmZ_T10-It8a09isEBf2_ffRNgIjo7E13CrM4WBM7RTRnb/s400/Florida5.JPG" /></a> Shortly after 8:00 pm, Lilian fell asleep and stayed in her carseat/carrier the rest of the night. We thought Gabriela would hang out with her cousins and all the other kids with the babysitters. She took one look at the giant room with all the kiddos though and was completely overwhelmed. We ended up just keeping her with us all night. She had a blast socializing and dancing, but, once it got past 10 pm, she pretty much just stayed on my hip and napped (first time she has ever fallen asleep while being held since she was like 8 months old!) She woke up to ring in the new year with us though!</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><br /></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-40438755185058943222011-01-01T12:26:00.005-06:002011-02-02T09:32:00.540-06:00Taking It Easy on Miami BeachThe day after Christmas we drove down to Tequesta, Florida (Palm Beach/Jupiter area) to spend some time with Eric's sister, Tanya, and her family. We decided that while in Florida, we should make our own little family beach trip to Miami. So we took off and drove the extra 1 1/2 hours to Miami Beach for a night on our own.<br /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569106750723227810" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6roMtCtIWqateguvErqV8WLgMSg-RfkY3ziA8bjZES5Z6g1PZYVeT2DOdYaHhhY02lFVc3a-RHDrdSsIhuURNO00YfMFd2vO87HO0EBF9BW7h27ko5A5z1Or04O1QVJ1VEU7q_zO-bmx4/s400/DSC01657.JPG" /><br />We scored a room at Hotel Riu Florida Beach for $109 using Hotwire. The room itself was nothing special, but it was beachfront and had an awesome heated pool. It was easily worth twice what we paid just on account of the location and pool! <br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaQe6hGIqXGbr_0zD1WFnjfhPlJCGeBRhrRw5VOlwhpCNA7KRByh4lWaV5hAsRe08pJNMqcB8_QEdN8Ai0ucT1Tzu9HfRIJ9xMu33o90k865gNrQ4Gtc_-iz22ZhyphenhyphenX1HTl2uLsZdiO2Jzz/s1600/DSC01636.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569106092954647186" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaQe6hGIqXGbr_0zD1WFnjfhPlJCGeBRhrRw5VOlwhpCNA7KRByh4lWaV5hAsRe08pJNMqcB8_QEdN8Ai0ucT1Tzu9HfRIJ9xMu33o90k865gNrQ4Gtc_-iz22ZhyphenhyphenX1HTl2uLsZdiO2Jzz/s400/DSC01636.JPG" /></a> We were impressed with how gorgeous the sand and water is at Miami Beach. After visiting some really incredible beaches in Brasil, we weren't sure how Miami would compare. The water was clear and a brilliant blue and the sand was perfect. We would have a preferred a slightly warmer, slightly less cloudy day so we could enjoy the water, but we had fun playing in the sand and taking in the scenery. And in all honesty, coming from Iowa in December, we weren't going to be real picky about the weather!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYXGA1se7w629S3XguDzxNFqTiWE90kogjAqjPJ62dmqqxcWxgBkpgDG-1FF5qQlpJ4qPClNpTe428Dqg1KuUrHXRCCgSt_eiVoQHHvWLIa1HM8uivfVuMcMTI-ZRGpjNOFmZuEhZJw5Cx/s1600/DSC01626.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569106083549009362" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYXGA1se7w629S3XguDzxNFqTiWE90kogjAqjPJ62dmqqxcWxgBkpgDG-1FF5qQlpJ4qPClNpTe428Dqg1KuUrHXRCCgSt_eiVoQHHvWLIa1HM8uivfVuMcMTI-ZRGpjNOFmZuEhZJw5Cx/s400/DSC01626.JPG" /></a><br />While playing on the beach, we even got a little reminder of Brasil as a plane flew overhead with a banner streaming behind it advertising Leblon Caipirinhas. How totally random is that?!?<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg0D9XTSi7vOKG7XH4Za9xiobAWUrbfJ8jqAhnyuuEVERq6DHC-AGg01ujLkby3SfahErY3F7S4haPSdz8NpQb2Fru5K-gVLKkKIUKxDHoW2hQ_3crKDSf0IVZSlxEjzeNOzu2bYuYkiPW/s1600/Miami1.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569106080742134786" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg0D9XTSi7vOKG7XH4Za9xiobAWUrbfJ8jqAhnyuuEVERq6DHC-AGg01ujLkby3SfahErY3F7S4haPSdz8NpQb2Fru5K-gVLKkKIUKxDHoW2hQ_3crKDSf0IVZSlxEjzeNOzu2bYuYkiPW/s400/Miami1.JPG" /></a><br />Gabriela had a complete blast playing in the sand. She really wanted to get in the water too, but it was definitely a bit chilly for that. She and Eric built all kinds of sand creations while I laid out and tried to combat my intense whiteness a bit.<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIss5ctorRCe2Mrq3Ek66rpIQZxxA4sJw7BUFEpRlH-MSLFwoHbPFjlt2_9XDSLflR-QQ5i2Y9_f1NcnpbN2LykGEaXfTlqIB4hvKSfP-0STWFZ1T5t-D76UvXk5GtA4F9S9b1TgtbPuvo/s1600/DSC01604.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569104030125133202" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIss5ctorRCe2Mrq3Ek66rpIQZxxA4sJw7BUFEpRlH-MSLFwoHbPFjlt2_9XDSLflR-QQ5i2Y9_f1NcnpbN2LykGEaXfTlqIB4hvKSfP-0STWFZ1T5t-D76UvXk5GtA4F9S9b1TgtbPuvo/s400/DSC01604.JPG" /></a><br />Lilian spent pretty much all her beach time napping in the beach tent. She sort of reminded me of her big sister at that age. There's no telling how many hours Gabs spent playing/napping in that tent during her first 8 months of life! (Long sleeves were rarely required in Brasil though!)<br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeL_nltd4hUHvJsU1xDjPrSrq2tWez0mSdzNObxe4hhZXi_I_jCdtdZV_vDBkXJCBFKxtEn8SOO3Sp4KR0x3Xy5jU_M8Ja6FveQ_4O9lIVf2OqCeLEOEYkp7BbqEzjSP1SF0LOl5FdbLro/s1600/DSC01591.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569104025450278882" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeL_nltd4hUHvJsU1xDjPrSrq2tWez0mSdzNObxe4hhZXi_I_jCdtdZV_vDBkXJCBFKxtEn8SOO3Sp4KR0x3Xy5jU_M8Ja6FveQ_4O9lIVf2OqCeLEOEYkp7BbqEzjSP1SF0LOl5FdbLro/s400/DSC01591.JPG" /></a> We enjoyed checking out Miami Beach, long strolls down the boardwalk, taking in a bit of the nightlife (being the responsible parents that we are and all, we had the girls out past 10 pm for supper that night!) and swimming in the heated pool. It was a very successful and enjoyable first beach trip as a family of four! And we loved Miami Beach so much that it might become a tradition for anytime we're in Florida visiting the Arnolds!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy8vxeiK5i6BZFKOkjTm94e3m_UNDL2dzqY1ZsIiieaW05I3ZrLotVbbui5l2qrae8ogf4oFXeDG5VBFY2eo9dBVxM-Yjzxp8xha6KZRo9K2VJeyG_oapjp9-2q6S3VKetsWFzJUMExrT2/s1600/DSC01589.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569103621670510450" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjy8vxeiK5i6BZFKOkjTm94e3m_UNDL2dzqY1ZsIiieaW05I3ZrLotVbbui5l2qrae8ogf4oFXeDG5VBFY2eo9dBVxM-Yjzxp8xha6KZRo9K2VJeyG_oapjp9-2q6S3VKetsWFzJUMExrT2/s400/DSC01589.JPG" /></a> </div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-31723471520350705772010-12-29T11:31:00.000-06:002011-01-31T12:21:18.509-06:00Christmas in GeorgiaWe left chilly Iowa after Eric got off work on the 23rd. We drove overnight and arrived at my grandparents home in Perry, Georgia about 7:00 am the next morning. After a family nap and showers, we were ready to enjoy a couple days with my family.<br /><br />We just hung around Grandma and Grandad's on Christmas Eve. After the long car-ride, we were glad to see the weather was nice enough for a walk around the pasture and through the planted pines.<br /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568391396981335858" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW7RMRkhh4_AotXpG1JwFnH0VJI-f_rdCMKuviAEwlOMic-U8aopJcL3nkg3tI_oj3bRmWxwjGEzmHT3pcpP8pykcln_od9V1wSzKq4xBykVlKDyzN30S3LJ9tfxQD5xCRvvlTxpUujibG/s400/xmas7.JPG" />My two married brothers were spending Christmas Eve with their in-laws, so my grandparents, parents, Nathan, and my little family of four went over to my Aunt Jody's for chili and appetizers that evening.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirIUHU8gJbGalCFw5yT56kxT9-uQVxseUO7h52mSzuhitedqD7bLSMvhOL4xyaVEnV-ONKYkWE-NHnn9IaG3H3BEugkDDYUQvgeHsMDvAm6GgdzfGpoW13lz3xMlLDSNM1nyzozlYyaYFF/s1600/xmas6.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568390387948507362" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirIUHU8gJbGalCFw5yT56kxT9-uQVxseUO7h52mSzuhitedqD7bLSMvhOL4xyaVEnV-ONKYkWE-NHnn9IaG3H3BEugkDDYUQvgeHsMDvAm6GgdzfGpoW13lz3xMlLDSNM1nyzozlYyaYFF/s400/xmas6.JPG" /></a> We enjoyed a couple photo ops in front of the tree with the girls. Gabriela, as usual, was excited to hold her baby sister for the occasion. Lilian, as usual, was less than thrilled about the sitution. Both girls were equally concerned though when we got the great idea to toss them both into a giant stocking for pictures.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiz8X37z5hdKiz1KQ0PUDeo-bmrIl8QEkimftci-mZRwKDARh9BPZmrLxzibpFLL2EZYrvY1WzfRX5rZewVozYdTlaJMG9JX7h7XAF2hfYniHpBtlmrEUjnpeJAX-yxNcUrCsjh-zVGMVK/s1600/xmas1.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568384453126724754" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiz8X37z5hdKiz1KQ0PUDeo-bmrIl8QEkimftci-mZRwKDARh9BPZmrLxzibpFLL2EZYrvY1WzfRX5rZewVozYdTlaJMG9JX7h7XAF2hfYniHpBtlmrEUjnpeJAX-yxNcUrCsjh-zVGMVK/s400/xmas1.JPG" /></a>Papai Noel managed to find the girls in Georgia on Christmas morning. So we opened Santa gifts before heading back over to Aunt Jody's for brunch. Gabriela really got into opening presents. Her favorite gift of the morning was a remote control of her very own - which often doubles as her make-belive telefone. The enthusiasm shifted though when Grandma brought out a gift for her to open early. My child loves shoes. So brown and pink cowgirl boots from Grandma and Grandad made her a very happy kid!<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIcHvsvPDCk2Ezd9lCJXKYo7rPSFIiu21esNFemeC0m_6kHaSIPWry6ukyyus8aZWTEuSyLikyE-EFZLxbsQjawB68oQDKiZitT-kCDSmovbSgT-4czo_4xhmCV-5PaJa1TYes6zicrNTN/s1600/xmas2.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568385238684031602" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIcHvsvPDCk2Ezd9lCJXKYo7rPSFIiu21esNFemeC0m_6kHaSIPWry6ukyyus8aZWTEuSyLikyE-EFZLxbsQjawB68oQDKiZitT-kCDSmovbSgT-4czo_4xhmCV-5PaJa1TYes6zicrNTN/s400/xmas2.JPG" /></a><br />My immediate family all made it to Perry before dinner, so we had our gift exchange then. The entire family, all 22 of us, were at Grandma and Grandad's for Christmas Dinner. Much food was followed by many presents with lots of laughter mixed in with it all. </div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhxdUPg-6h88eH-qf257ZLa2QisTy_cZg1MAvPbCWKp4VEK7kXCIFbyR3W11paGx6MBmPf1_GI2V34fENSHHX4S0RpbXVc-yD-cOCDpAyz1r57ReuP-O3bvqnjgE2So-7WeKKfwKkqk2pc/s1600/xmas4.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568388215750880994" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhxdUPg-6h88eH-qf257ZLa2QisTy_cZg1MAvPbCWKp4VEK7kXCIFbyR3W11paGx6MBmPf1_GI2V34fENSHHX4S0RpbXVc-yD-cOCDpAyz1r57ReuP-O3bvqnjgE2So-7WeKKfwKkqk2pc/s400/xmas4.JPG" /></a><br /></div><div>A little Christmas Day photo session before we open presents.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivdrabaw5NV9Rc-ha8zGnaQ2ISyZ8paWo_qEqiEmbQQ4Q4oHl45KYnRXIsIQyMRCVJ3Q6x8u6fFz2Tpv98PZ2LNqD4QDg_WLAK8HCdDiGJFx-Wdx81THCxbQxM7hFVzFS7T-pfDo9d-wcV/s1600/xmas3.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568386651798201890" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivdrabaw5NV9Rc-ha8zGnaQ2ISyZ8paWo_qEqiEmbQQ4Q4oHl45KYnRXIsIQyMRCVJ3Q6x8u6fFz2Tpv98PZ2LNqD4QDg_WLAK8HCdDiGJFx-Wdx81THCxbQxM7hFVzFS7T-pfDo9d-wcV/s400/xmas3.JPG" /></a><br />Gabriela and Lilian are the only great-grandkids (unless you count Travis and Brii's en utero), so they get spoiled in a major way anytime we're around my family. Lilian gets held and cuddled and cooed over constantly. And Gabriela has a very captivated audience to entertain all on her own. <br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjf-AngA8LpScLrg-Bai8r6NXjt3TPyXl1YbptkDO1UUqKPPug_jiO3fZBIdtU1MCFux9sKdN8v4Yx2WJc1AhyQwFeMHJWCu72sUQhAhMr0KOZ9i0tNc1PNJGz0mwXioHE-hF63M7wngudW/s1600/_DSC0236edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5566180759511415410" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjf-AngA8LpScLrg-Bai8r6NXjt3TPyXl1YbptkDO1UUqKPPug_jiO3fZBIdtU1MCFux9sKdN8v4Yx2WJc1AhyQwFeMHJWCu72sUQhAhMr0KOZ9i0tNc1PNJGz0mwXioHE-hF63M7wngudW/s400/_DSC0236edit.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_-om3XoUmih5FyxXJCFLeg9Db_F3qQgYhgvfBKb8shz5nqwbARbigPcfH5cDIj00wnUOAP6uXvuL4ydsuu40cafMLC6vRkfLe_Hhse56AAcyV9R0LUxqaGuIcLwRw10gz86KDAx4vWtpK/s1600/_DSC0231edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5566179301190574754" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_-om3XoUmih5FyxXJCFLeg9Db_F3qQgYhgvfBKb8shz5nqwbARbigPcfH5cDIj00wnUOAP6uXvuL4ydsuu40cafMLC6vRkfLe_Hhse56AAcyV9R0LUxqaGuIcLwRw10gz86KDAx4vWtpK/s400/_DSC0231edit.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Y_g3RlpfGH3AS3OGvaYkmI4xJvF0bkTvCAfQK6ahWIRig64pBewiqDcrtDI-y753gGUjqHUVQQRUwZ59mC-Dni5xkptHxzGfeqlkQJUtQXlUHT8VnEL7mtHHLbNJtefy2qLPlE2-2S0y/s1600/xmas5.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 266px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5568388912565842178" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Y_g3RlpfGH3AS3OGvaYkmI4xJvF0bkTvCAfQK6ahWIRig64pBewiqDcrtDI-y753gGUjqHUVQQRUwZ59mC-Dni5xkptHxzGfeqlkQJUtQXlUHT8VnEL7mtHHLbNJtefy2qLPlE2-2S0y/s400/xmas5.JPG" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6kMiLU_G5cZ0ZcXdgAfrV5OVdsnynWQCii5bVi167efNaKSzI-_aTgph6GXHT00GdL-5_qNVnTwI-d0Im2hk0_B-aFNlCnIzfGkUoKyiqPQuau_rdtqbTb968-J0vTEmVLLHLr2Rco9H-/s1600/_DSC0234.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5566178793842495714" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6kMiLU_G5cZ0ZcXdgAfrV5OVdsnynWQCii5bVi167efNaKSzI-_aTgph6GXHT00GdL-5_qNVnTwI-d0Im2hk0_B-aFNlCnIzfGkUoKyiqPQuau_rdtqbTb968-J0vTEmVLLHLr2Rco9H-/s400/_DSC0234.JPG" /></a> It was, as it always is, a fantastic Georgia Christmas. We then celebrated my first-ever annual 29th birthday on December 26th before leaving that afternoon to drive down to South Florida.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-70385031967908109622010-12-25T23:29:00.001-06:002011-01-21T14:59:35.938-06:00Lilian - 3 Months<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirlPrC1gLo7UCgavukztm-Z0y31C1fLjrxxszwCLjk_zEGHsBHRQHGlMR5j5K8l2bHKDhubvKF49dQzprbzXB7H4uUFv8SUnvjxEY0T77g0u3s1S6OAJirLI92VlWXy_xe7YuiWudG9SbB/s1600/Lilian+3+Months.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5561013381256310482" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirlPrC1gLo7UCgavukztm-Z0y31C1fLjrxxszwCLjk_zEGHsBHRQHGlMR5j5K8l2bHKDhubvKF49dQzprbzXB7H4uUFv8SUnvjxEY0T77g0u3s1S6OAJirLI92VlWXy_xe7YuiWudG9SbB/s400/Lilian+3+Months.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiavgF37Cq812l7fvXmgCCbM21VbkMpZnVwJJuvVEYX_wZAQ_49vwE84rdItw2kbH9Zh_ZcO92u6fW9F34oUYenYHDGtPbCHdXw_MFbOAxZE1Mlbzy7388aF69fir8B0Z0dAuGph_oPEnrK/s1600/3+Months.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5561013111505535938" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiavgF37Cq812l7fvXmgCCbM21VbkMpZnVwJJuvVEYX_wZAQ_49vwE84rdItw2kbH9Zh_ZcO92u6fW9F34oUYenYHDGtPbCHdXw_MFbOAxZE1Mlbzy7388aF69fir8B0Z0dAuGph_oPEnrK/s400/3+Months.jpg" /></a> Dear Lilian,<br /><br />A quarter of a year old on Christmas Day! What good times! And how has 1/4 of a year already passed since your birth?<br /><br />After driving down to Georgia for Grandpa's retirement party and Thanksgiving, we turned around and did it all over again on the 23rd for Christmas. Our plan is to drive down to South Florida now after Christmas before making the journey back to Iowa in January. Your Papai and I are so thankful that you are proving to be a good car rider!<br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2ltF393no9-6UODuYzJFJpWdKd4Qd8b_lj0pPffgfaPlflFg3NWaMNK-sc2TAKUhgM3wNscOge-84d6RjIYQSTlEO5PdEVk9ZD25DftHSu2LrWrv3As6mOvBpAu1QQGafPCB_rc32fZS1/s1600/_DSC0214edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564736720586380258" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2ltF393no9-6UODuYzJFJpWdKd4Qd8b_lj0pPffgfaPlflFg3NWaMNK-sc2TAKUhgM3wNscOge-84d6RjIYQSTlEO5PdEVk9ZD25DftHSu2LrWrv3As6mOvBpAu1QQGafPCB_rc32fZS1/s400/_DSC0214edit.jpg" /></a> </div><div>Your little personality has been developing so much this last month. You flash great big grins anytime someone is talking to you and have started to giggle on occasion. Your laughs are really throaty and almost sound fake - it's really cute and hopefully you'll let me catch it on camera one of these days.</div><div><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1HVpMHT7dGUqf3Pg3EpVoOpA2IPvdeewNpe_uER11D9LYsSBk27pTIX9GzWsptae3Zf3OzTj3mK1Og34MqUwQlv9WLqqH6Glyam5l1UqWKDjhEVHrCBIOVYCEw7JHNtUyJNbdKYHLvQvo/s1600/_DSC0174edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564735925275861842" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1HVpMHT7dGUqf3Pg3EpVoOpA2IPvdeewNpe_uER11D9LYsSBk27pTIX9GzWsptae3Zf3OzTj3mK1Og34MqUwQlv9WLqqH6Glyam5l1UqWKDjhEVHrCBIOVYCEw7JHNtUyJNbdKYHLvQvo/s400/_DSC0174edit.jpg" /></a> </div><div><br />You remain on the top of Gabriela's "favorite things" list. You have mixed emotions regarding her though, I'm afraid. She tries to be very gentle but inadvertently ends up bonking heads with you, stepping on your hand, or shoving the pacifier in your mouth just a little too hard. And then you roll out that bottom lip of yours. And you scream. Loudly. You've become known as "the drama queen" around here for your over-the-top antics. Given your normally super laid-back and ultra-chill demeanor and how quickly you can turn it to drama, you might have a job in Hollywood one of these days. Which would be great - we're not against you making us rich. ;)<br /><br /></div><div></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAUDvUMxbLIOdyEaXlKDuQiRYAT7SYFiOZMWvxc51FihDBGvJg0hIQzZ40omumL_v_54FCtRIv3JTwD7uPR9sLjS66v7t3Jq9_AtJRuerwaB4Uc424a_bto8I64kNGPEQHn_WPuJLZhnMW/s1600/DSC01557edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564732951412460034" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAUDvUMxbLIOdyEaXlKDuQiRYAT7SYFiOZMWvxc51FihDBGvJg0hIQzZ40omumL_v_54FCtRIv3JTwD7uPR9sLjS66v7t3Jq9_AtJRuerwaB4Uc424a_bto8I64kNGPEQHn_WPuJLZhnMW/s400/DSC01557edit.jpg" /></a><br />Despite lacking anything resembling a routine in the nap department yet, you are a great little night-time sleeper and generally sleep from about 8:00 pm until 10:00 am waking sometime between 6:00 and 8:00 am to nurse. You're quite the cuddler and on weekdays you often stay in bed with me after our morning milk session since Papai is already up and getting ready for work then. Given that the rest of my day is pretty well split between you and your sister (with her demanding more of my attention at the moment), it is awfully nice to get some one-on-one cuddle time (even if you are asleep during it!)<br /><br /><br /></div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhakPXXOqG8R3hPodjR7dS8g4U3KydslXAVmOy81KRbo1_2Y8OL_Xbm6jdjR1MrTf9EsJpcpHsTHifO6rKUK-4sTlwuvRoXV7tWrBGspr8ODnVNZZBr-YhvphiJKxYWyRjtuZSnKQcKY1gj/s1600/DSC01545edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564730501451881698" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhakPXXOqG8R3hPodjR7dS8g4U3KydslXAVmOy81KRbo1_2Y8OL_Xbm6jdjR1MrTf9EsJpcpHsTHifO6rKUK-4sTlwuvRoXV7tWrBGspr8ODnVNZZBr-YhvphiJKxYWyRjtuZSnKQcKY1gj/s400/DSC01545edit.jpg" /></a> </div><div>You are having trouble stretching out your feedings to four hours, but since you already sleep all night I'm not really stressing over it. You tend to nurse every 3 hours or so and end up with five feedings each day rather than my preferred four...but we're getting along just fine that way. You are growing well and really filling out in your face - you've got some serious jowls now!<br /><br />The last couple weeks you have turned into a complete slobber monster. I am pretty sure every bit of saliva you produce ends up on your chin and running onto your shirt. You have really got to work on the whole swallowing your spit thing...otherwise I'm afraid you might drown yourself one of these days!</div><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQ_jptJjI0-Uk53WTCYeXoc56QBomuGPptYWiPLLa6hUjaw9C4hkV6skEdBPSVeOkakvwYS6KbGiwW_3iz8AaTQiHQwLYcvrVntpm0FpwjYmA5quR0QdBtuzz9QcLRmnPwE9yfVRoB-Ew8/s1600/DSC01544.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564729936994710978" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQ_jptJjI0-Uk53WTCYeXoc56QBomuGPptYWiPLLa6hUjaw9C4hkV6skEdBPSVeOkakvwYS6KbGiwW_3iz8AaTQiHQwLYcvrVntpm0FpwjYmA5quR0QdBtuzz9QcLRmnPwE9yfVRoB-Ew8/s400/DSC01544.JPG" /></a><br />Your last appointment was at 2 1/2 months. You weighed 10 pounds 12 ounces (25th percentile) and were 23.25 inches long (40th percentile).<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOo-EXLgApzKzVwo5CnowCsTiLLiSJpoRTW4YojRwWj8FRK6jpEVibGymStB7W7dVmo9nhLMavYnVyW5xlVLJ2lKqCyWYMiwIvhQMkGJmWmqn1V5AlWRS_H06wGWrVbHS6XG_ctuXN6qGT/s1600/_DSC0340.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5564729639009144162" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOo-EXLgApzKzVwo5CnowCsTiLLiSJpoRTW4YojRwWj8FRK6jpEVibGymStB7W7dVmo9nhLMavYnVyW5xlVLJ2lKqCyWYMiwIvhQMkGJmWmqn1V5AlWRS_H06wGWrVbHS6XG_ctuXN6qGT/s400/_DSC0340.JPG" /></a><br />You are our little cutie and we all enjoy you so much everyday. You are my daily reminder of how richly blessed I am!</div><div> </div><div></div><div>Eu te amo,</div><div>Mamãe </div></div></div></div></div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3948677340500742474.post-18629625514875186222010-12-15T09:05:00.002-06:002011-01-11T13:25:44.732-06:00An Early Iowa Christmas<div align="left"><em>(I have a bunch of posts in the works...I only just now getting around to finishing/editing and posting them!)</em><br /><br />Being that I'm from Georgia and Eric is from Iowa has it challenges some days. Besides the occasional language barrier, my rather persistent groaning about the never-ending winter, and a constant battle as to whether tea is meant to be brewed and sweetened or instant and disgusting (sorry but I do the writing here, I'm entitled to my opinion), there is the issue of the holidays. It's a little hard to do Christmas Eve with one side and Christmas Day with the other like my brothers and sisters-in-law do (although we did manage that in 2006!) So you can imagine our delight when Eric's sister in Florida, Tanya, announced that she and her four kids were coming up to Iowa for two weeks in early December. Eric's family decided to celebrate Christmas early while everyone was here! (Thereby freeing us up to journey down to Georgia for the 25th.)<br /><br /><br /></div><p align="center"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560998354423433890" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicki-K7kdb8UbQ9dsvMDi-q74Bn5GqvcXoAkUbgcWTR1hNLq-81HRoy1OkkFycNqo1au77gjtedEMA2-xBwE98n98NkuJonGBBEkyZ7NiZ6aGBcbNArI9RQh_jiNDCbpQWHv4yPOpBDA3j/s400/DSC01499edit.jpg" /></p><p align="center">Madison, the oldest grandchild and very much the "mother" of all the youngins', liked holding Lilian, the youngest.</p><p align="center"></p><p align="left">We went up to Eric's parents' house both weekends that Tanya and the kids were in town. (Brian wasn't able to come since he was finishing up the school semester.) It was crazytown with all the kids: Madison (6), Kaylee (4), Hannah (2), Gabriela (20 months), Carson (3.5 months), AJ (3 months), Lilian (2.5 months). Yes that would make seven grandkids total under the age of 6, with two toddlers and three itty-bitty babies.<br /><br />I should also mention that we had the great idea to take all the kiddos up to Sears Portrait Studio for a group picture. With no adults in it. Bless their hearts, the girls at the studio spent tons of time with us and did their very best. But here's the thing: it is impossible to get two toddlers to cooperate and three babies awake and not crying all at the same time. <em>IMPOSSIBLE</em>. We quickly realized that we were certifiably insane for even thinking that was a good idea. We agreed to try again later...once they're teenagers.<br /></p><p align="center"></p><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipq2VXYJH_SwaWMLvyKpHnlxX4yyjsJmrhNFgF4rptucFqDzlrEDltFIjveuWnc-UBoWW-POWxoifpNSSSgqfRC3hrgjjeAczDGl3cw_R15Bh-OuvTYA3a45ShV3LadZsBawzS_hZAEvjg/s1600/DSC01491edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560997878069639698" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipq2VXYJH_SwaWMLvyKpHnlxX4yyjsJmrhNFgF4rptucFqDzlrEDltFIjveuWnc-UBoWW-POWxoifpNSSSgqfRC3hrgjjeAczDGl3cw_R15Bh-OuvTYA3a45ShV3LadZsBawzS_hZAEvjg/s400/DSC01491edit.jpg" /></a> Lilian and Carson (5 weeks apart) spent lots of time smiling, laughing, and "talking" to each other.<br /><br /></div><div align="center"></div><div align="left">The second weekend they were in town, we had a busy schedule: get together with some of the aunts and uncles at Tammy's house on Friday night, deer hunting on Saturday morning, Christmas on Saturday night. I ended up leaving before the festivities even began though.<br /><br /></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYGjg4UHfjo4uY5vSNC95XPUUeK2kUPD4LN57XISsZP7Ij5cSUHFBxWAxmvp9dXG8INsiO9uQ1WjbK_u-B9PaNb7MwHMojuvUN7rc46DqzmRoXQokT77zuB_gvhqWnE_80_P5cqmo7UNKL/s1600/DSC01501edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560979949022768226" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYGjg4UHfjo4uY5vSNC95XPUUeK2kUPD4LN57XISsZP7Ij5cSUHFBxWAxmvp9dXG8INsiO9uQ1WjbK_u-B9PaNb7MwHMojuvUN7rc46DqzmRoXQokT77zuB_gvhqWnE_80_P5cqmo7UNKL/s400/DSC01501edit.jpg" /></a> Some of the family that got together Friday night at Tammy's<br /></div><div align="left"><br />My very first doula client went into labor that day, so I high-tailed it back to Burlington Friday evening, supported her all night and day through a very long labor, came home Saturday at 6:00 pm after the baby was born, and (after eating my weight in pasta) slept for 14 hours straight. (For those who are wondering: it was a fantastic experience, left me in complete awe at the amazing miracle that is birth, and left no doubt that this is exactly what I am supposed to be doing right now. A 30-hour labor (I was there for the last 20 hours) is exhausting and tough on everyone involved, but even that didn't deter my enthusiasm for this new venture!)<br /><br /><br /></div><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5uW118jwJTgbE9VDa5yyAbgJw6X7MA11Ribsq-3xLSGAsZWT0GDo8eGN4iqwd6h2prjb5EcT7mgBc6MVcTizi5tZ3vQnJreCrXFFfVhhtkRr_MOTphRj_-st7PbPNXc2kOf5yp-ue7e6g/s1600/DSC01505edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560977869820714338" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5uW118jwJTgbE9VDa5yyAbgJw6X7MA11Ribsq-3xLSGAsZWT0GDo8eGN4iqwd6h2prjb5EcT7mgBc6MVcTizi5tZ3vQnJreCrXFFfVhhtkRr_MOTphRj_-st7PbPNXc2kOf5yp-ue7e6g/s400/DSC01505edit.jpg" /></a> The baby line-up: Carson, AJ, Lilian, and Mary Jo (their second cousin)<br /><br /></div><div align="center"></div><div align="left">Even though I wasn't there and I'm certain that the absence of their favorite daughter-in-law (I maintain that it's irrelevant that I'm the only one) was greatly felt, it sounds like everyone had a great time celebrating Christmas. Good food, good company, lots of toys was basically the report I got.<br /><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBjwfoLKydqUA1rxWOakwqqztVSdiJVO_RW0HlyQyq9Ihg1oFJzT2CV7SW31KoHrN_HJInJa9jpvMHKoTdku9XX76H1eWerNk86N6_HtNjSjxRnHonZFMen4TonOMHEm_5VJqTjEj2uemV/s1600/DSC01521edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560976655602647970" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBjwfoLKydqUA1rxWOakwqqztVSdiJVO_RW0HlyQyq9Ihg1oFJzT2CV7SW31KoHrN_HJInJa9jpvMHKoTdku9XX76H1eWerNk86N6_HtNjSjxRnHonZFMen4TonOMHEm_5VJqTjEj2uemV/s400/DSC01521edit.jpg" /> <p align="center"></a></p><p align="center">Nena and Papa with their grandkids on Friday night (late enough for half of them to be in pjs already)<br /></p><p align="left">I hated to miss out on the weekend, but was somewhat consoled by the fact that we were planning to be in Florida with Brian, Tanya, and the kids for several days after Christmas!<br /><br /><br /></p><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO4MiRSj15L0yTYsPN6gVVFHD2EISyI5ttvg8wH3dVxnikbxh4jePCEDM6dyWyvP2PJk5OiRJknpKbGpIpipVJzx5XgZMYkdWp6nmzViu5Y1ZyJj14XcIYxUmNTaUKd1d70p2DCzeT4IbT/s1600/DSC01530edit.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5560945713252929202" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO4MiRSj15L0yTYsPN6gVVFHD2EISyI5ttvg8wH3dVxnikbxh4jePCEDM6dyWyvP2PJk5OiRJknpKbGpIpipVJzx5XgZMYkdWp6nmzViu5Y1ZyJj14XcIYxUmNTaUKd1d70p2DCzeT4IbT/s400/DSC01530edit.jpg" /></a> Gabriela tearing into her presents on Saturday night </div><div align="center">(How impressive is it that Eric even got the girls into Christmas dresses all by himself?!?)</div>Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04624952545651275644noreply@blogger.com0